While kids are away....

Last week, while both my kids were away, (my son to the UK and my daughter to Girl Scout Camp) my wife and I took advantage and went to one of our favorite get away from it all places. Oddly enough it is located only about 1.5 hours from home and is near Covington, Indiana. It is a bed and breakfast log cabin call Cabins and Candlelights. It is probably the best bed and breakfast we have ever stayed in! It is a complete place to stay with full kitchen, stocked with goodies, dining area, sitting area, large bed and hottub all contained in the same room. Outside you have a fire pit and wooded area, a creek nearby and lots of wild critters to come visit you while there. As you can see from the photos, it is a very elegant place and truly is a place to relax and get away from it all. I really like it there and highly recommend it for anyone who needs a bit of time to themselves. The owners have thought of everything and all that remains is for you to visit. We have been twice and will definately be back...

Some of things we don't normally get to do while we were there...

sleep in

pick wild raspberries for pancakes

talk a walk in the woods

have a quiet campfire

read for hours

relax in the hottub

watch a movie without interuption

go antiquing

go eat somewhere we have never been

and other things I won't go into detail about....

Check it out on the web. Just search for Cabins & Candlelights! You will not be disappointed!

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Update from the UK and Ireland!

Well, after nearly 8 days of not hearing a thing from our son, who is traveling in England, Wales and Ireland, we finally got a phone call telling us that all is well and that he actually does not miss us or is not homesick because it "is the most amazing experience." That makes all the hard work and time to get him over there worth it all. We have heard that they have been having experiences that your normal tourist coudl never have and much of what he talks about is making me jealous! (like complete free run of Warwick Castle and stuff like that....)

He will be there until the 9th of July and returns on the 10th. So far he has taken over 1GB of photos on the digital camera. I think that is something like more than 300 images! Wow!

I am so glad he is having a great time, but I can't wait to see him and hear all about it!

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One of the toughest things I am going to do....

Hello All!

This coming Thursday, the 21st of June, I am going to have to do one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. I will be letting my 12 year old son travel to another part of the world, where for the most part, I will be unable to help him, watch over him, guide him, comfort him, yell at him or do anything more than talk to him on the phone. He is leaving for England, Wales and Ireland to spend three weeks abroad with the People To People Student Ambassador program. He was nominated and selected from a group of Central Illinois Students to go on this cultural exchange program and for the last 6 months we have been working to raise funds to send him. Well, now the time has come. I think it has snuck up on everyone in our family. I think that for a very long time, my son thought that it would really not happen, but indeed it really is. I know that he has many apprehensions about leaving and traveling so far away from his family. I have the same ones. However, this program has been doing this sort of thing for almost 30+years and is very well organized and well planned.
Aside from being very proud of him for going, I am jealous. I have never been anywhere other than Canada and that cannot really be said of going to a foreign country, especially when I have only traveled to Toronto. He is going to get to see and do so much. The itinerary they have laid out for him is amazing! I highly doubt he will even think about calling home he will be so busy and moving around.
Thursday is coming up fast. I am quite nervous but I do not want to let him see that. I am sure there will be tears upon leaving but he will not see concern in my face. I hope to add entries to the blog as he progresses in his travel. But for now, all I want to do is get through Thursday and see him off safely and comfortably. Other than making sure he is well prepared, that is about all I will be able to do for him. Wish me luck!

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Earliest Memories?

How far back does ones memory go? Are we able to remember things from our very early childhood days? I was thinking about this when on vacation in St. Louis. My daughter, who had visited the arch when she was about 2 years old or so, thought she remembered it, but really was only remembering a photo she had seen. My son did remember some of it but it was very little and he was about 6 years old. Not that far back in terms of length of time for him. It piqued my interest and I thought about what some of my earliest memories are. Here are what I came up with.

I remember an afternoon spent in a mud puddle at the entrance of my parents driveway. My younger brother and I spent a good hour or so playing in a deep muddy pool of warm water. There is a photo of this, and I am not remembering just the photo, because I distinctly remembering riding through the puddle with my trike and pouring water over my brother's legs and arms. And I remember my mother laughing at me before taking the picture.

I remember a 2 year old birthday with a clown cake. I remember it being decorated on the counter just to the left of where the fridge in my parents house now sits. I also remember tasting the icing and taking a picture outside by the front lamp post.

I remember my first day of walking to the school bus. I had to walk with my older brother, who was 13 years older than me. I also remember standing in the road outside my parents house with my sack of things for school waiting for my mother to take a picture. I don't know if that photo still exists or not. I vividly remember my fear and walking behind him to the corner to be picked up. It was a sunny, hot day. I don't remember the bus arriving but I distinctly recall the bus driver saying to my brother, "It looks like you have a shadow today." I also remember the nervousness I felt when he walked to the back of the bus and I stayed in the front. I thought I was supposed to stay with him but instead he moved as far to the back of the bus as was allowed. I don't remember anything after that.

I definately remember the old neighbor we had next door. Lee Fry. I remember stealing his cane and letting us sit with him on his front porch in the afternoon. He also used to give us cold drinks in the summer. I remember his yard was often overgrown and it had junk lying around in it. He was quite old and I think we have photos of me and my younger brother posing with him. I also remember visiting him in the nursing home in Hoopeston I think. Maybe it was Watseka. He died when I was maybe 5 years old but I don't recall a funeral that I attended. I currently own his mitre box saw and his single shot 12 guage shotgun. He was a cool guy.

Speaking of old guys, I remember the barber how used to cut my hair. Snuffy Barth. Snuffy was his nickname and for the life of me I cannot remember his real first name right now. I remember the old barber chair that was too big for me to sit in so I had to sit on my dad's lap. The shop always had neat things to look at and examine but we (my younger brother and I) were always told to sit still and not mess with anything. I seem to recall his shop being in a garage or at least it looked that way to me. Snuffy was a short balding man that had a interesting pattern of speech. Almost like he was puffing out air as he talked. He was incredibly friendly and made getting haircuts tolerable for a youngster.

This is what I can come up with for the moment. I am sure that as I think harder, more memories will come to the fore. If any of you have that you want to share, feel free to comment! Thanks!

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Family time part two...

In this second, and last installment of the St.Louis Trip, you can see some photos from Dave and Barry's which we spent some time and $$$ at last night. If you get a chance to go and like the interactive video games and spending alot of money on cheap prizes, this is the place for you! This morning we got up, ate another bowl of cold cereal and stale danishes and headed out for Hermann, MO. Home of Stone Hill Winery, and bithplace of our favorite wines. We took the trip a few years ago and liked the place and since we were in the area we decided to go aout again. We did the tour for all of $4 for the 4 of us and learned some cool things about our favorite wines... In the photo of the barrels stacked up in a pyramid, you are looking at the newest batch of the Port wine. This is good stuff! And in the other barrels are the other red wines fermenting and aging. This winery was established in the 1830's but took a big hit during prohibition when it went from making wine to growing commercial mushrooms! After the tour and wine tasting we went to the restaurant and had a great meal. From there we went to the St. Louis Mills Mall and checked out the Cabelas, and a few other specialty stores. But we were pretty tired, and the kids really wanted to hit the pool so as of this writing we are back at the hotel, swimming, looking at delivery menus and basically just relaxing. So, I guess it is time to get wet, eat and maybe play a game... family time... just like we wanted.

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Family Time in St. Louis

Hello there! I am in St. Louis right now spending a bit of time with the family. We decided to do a short family vacation as my son, Julian will be spending 3 weeks in Europe over the summer and we will not get a real vacation this year. So here we are in St. Louis. A good distance from home but not too far to make it hard to get there and back... First off, I have to say, I miss my DOG! Gunnar is my best buddy and I miss him. I wish he were here. Ok... there, that is done. He is staying at home with a neighbor. I hope he is ok. Ok, now I am really done.

Coming in we decided to hit the zoo first as we have heard great things about it and aside from parking and food it is basically free. (It is funded through taxes.. smart idea!) It ws not too hot like it usually is when we visit zoos, so the animals were actually out and awake as opposed to looking something more akin to roadkill. Our visit to the zoo was not as long as hoped as Mapquest gave us some really screwy directions and the fact that there are little to no signs indicating that there is even a zoo around the area it is located. We drove around for about an hour before we found the place. Once found though, it was a nice visit and we had a good time. Beware dive bombing puffins in the penguin house!

The next morning, we had a really bad, stale continental breakfast and headed out to the Gateway Arch. I have been before a few times but each time it is really amazing to me the size and magnitude of this monument to westward expansion. They have really done a nice job with the memorial grounds and the museum inside the visitors center is really nice too.

We finished the arch around 11 am and headed for something called the City Museum. Now, this is not your typical museum... it is more of an art museum or a work of art in progress. It is like the worlds largest set of monkey bars made from recycled items and materials and bent, banged, welded, and glued into a fantasy world were you can explore and crawl around and basically throw yourselves literally into a peice of art that someone has made. There is a tremendous amount of creativity and imagination in this place. It is really hard to describe but maybe you can get a bit of the idea from the photos. In a reversal of roles, Julian was being the brave kid for once and climbing out on precarious outcroppings and cages that hung in mid air while Cora was holding back. I think that she thought that maybe somewhere something was going to jump out to scare her but there is none of that. I must say, you should be very limber, have good knees or knee pads, and not closterphobic in this place! It was a great time and I highly suggest it.

After that it was back to the hotel for a bit of swim time and then to Dave and Buster's, the big dinner/bar/video arcade in Maryland Heights. It is a good time and is actually cheaper than going to Six Flags and the kids liked it just as much! We visited with some friends that evening and had a good time. Tomorrow is a day for Mom and Dad.... Hermann Missouri and the Stone Hill Winery!

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Going to the Principal's office.... *yawn*

Recently I did a stint as a substitute teacher. I like doing this part time job as it nurishes my appetite to be a teacher and to do something different once in a while. It is also a lot of fun and 99% of the kids I meet are great kids! However, there is that pesky 1% still left out there, and I am going to talk about them for a bit.

While subbing, I encountered a couple, no three kids, all boys who were somewhat considered troublemakers or unruly, or just lacking respect or discipline. One boy just seemed to thrive on disrupting class and the attention it got him, and so, he was removed from class, oldly enough at the request of many of the other students. Off he went to the prinicpal's office. I saw him later, no worse for wear...

The second boy, while struggling in school, seems to be able to cope with the class work, seems to be a victim to his own inablity to ignore outside stimuli and reacts, or more accurately, overreacts to it. I was present when he and others were called out for taking a test in private room without teacher supervision. One thing led to another and he started to yell, hit the wall and otherwise over react to the situation. Off he went to the prinicpal's office, with me escorting him. While walking I tried to tell him that it was not the fact that he was not to take the test without a teacher present, but his actions that followed that got him a visit to the office. I think it made sense to him and he seemed to understand, a bit. (Later he was about to over react and he stopped and looked at me and said, "Oh, right!" "I remember!" and he stopped and just sat back down!) After his visit, he was back at class, able to finish the test and looking like it was just another day at school.

The third boy, had a direct confrontation with me and I decided that if I did not act immediately, I would loose respect and give this boy more confidence to act out again in the future. This kid seemed to think that he was better than just about anyone else and held other in contempt. It is a good thing that our local school kids are nice, because this kid is pretty small and nerdy and stands a good chance of getting a pounding if things in the make up of the school kids was different. Anyway, I took him to the office and went in to the meeting with the Dean of Students while he was made to explain while he was there. He basically stalled, hem-hawed and ignored the Dean and as I was leaving, the principal was filling out a disciplinary report. I looked a the boy and he seemed to not care at all. And why should he? All he was getting was a report form and maybe a after school detention. (Don't know for sure, though)

None of these kids seemed to be in the least bit intimidated about going to the office. Maybe it was because they have been there so many times, they don't care, or maybe it is not a big deal at home and so they don't worry. I do know that in my time and that was not that long ago, a trip to the office was a thing of dread! I even remember getting spanked! In grade school! (so much for that now) Punishments were real then, it seemed. Long after school detentions, extra homework, extra physical work, and even expulsion. Doesn't seem to be the case now. Maybe that is a good thing. Maybe my school district doesn't really have really bad students like I hear about in other places, but I think they have made the "OFFICE" a very un-intimitating place. I remember at my school it being a place to fear. Not so now it seems. That is too bad. I don't have a solution, but I would think that making it a more scary place might make it a less often visited place too!

Your thoughts?

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Non Sequitur

Check out the "Non Sequitur" comic for May 3rd, 2007. You might find it at www/gocomics.com/nonsequitur.

This is a great comic strip and this day's comic in particular is right on target. It is something that my wife and I have often wondered, every time we hear about a suicide murderer blowing themselves and other up in the name of their religion or god. So why are the Jihadist leaders, leading by example? Huh?

In a nutshell, the comic shows a jihadist leader on a pulpit in front of a crowd of followers. One of the crowd has his hand up and asks, "Um... If being a martyr is so great, why don't you ever volunteer?" And on the bottom, of the strip, a text box that states, "Why jihadist rallies never have Q and A sessions."

Wiley, the creator, hit the nail on the head. Maybe if a few more jihadist leaders lead by example, there would be less holy war in the world.....


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Global Warming on Mars??? How's that happen?

I am not sure where most of you stand on the topic of Global Warming, but I am not a proponent of the theory. While most people believe humans are responsible for it, I have yet to be convinced. I do admit that we humans do put a bunch of crap into our environment and we aren't doing it any good by continuing to live as we do, but I don't know if I believe that we can affect the entire earth with our efforts alone. Here is something that has recently come to my attention. It is certainly on the opposite end of the spectrum on then debate on the global warming. So I present this to you, "For What It's Worth!" Note the final paragraph of the article. In that same vein, so was Issac Newton, Galileo and other noteworthy scientists!

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http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2007/02/070228-mars-warming.html

Mars Melt Hints at Solar, Not Human, Cause for Warming, Scientist Says
Kate Raviliousfor National Geographic News
February 28, 2007
Simultaneous warming on Earth and Mars suggests that our planet's recent climate changes have a natural—and not a human-induced—cause, according to one scientist's controversial theory.
Earth is currently experiencing rapid warming, which the vast majority of climate scientists says is due to humans pumping huge amounts of greenhouse gases into the atmosphere. (Get an overview: "Global Warming Fast Facts".)

Mars, too, appears to be enjoying more mild and balmy temperatures.
In 2005 data from NASA's Mars Global Surveyor and Odyssey missions revealed that the carbon dioxide "ice caps" near Mars's south pole had been diminishing for three summers in a row.
Habibullo Abdussamatov, head of space research at St. Petersburg's Pulkovo Astronomical Observatory in Russia, says the Mars data is evidence that the current global warming on Earth is being caused by changes in the sun.
"The long-term increase in solar irradiance is heating both Earth and Mars," he said.
Solar Cycles
Abdussamatov believes that changes in the sun's heat output can account for almost all the climate changes we see on both planets.
Mars and Earth, for instance, have experienced periodic ice ages throughout their histories.
"Man-made greenhouse warming has made a small contribution to the warming seen on Earth in recent years, but it cannot compete with the increase in solar irradiance," Abdussamatov said.
By studying fluctuations in the warmth of the sun, Abdussamatov believes he can see a pattern that fits with the ups and downs in climate we see on Earth and Mars.
Abdussamatov's work, however, has not been well received by other climate scientists.

"His views are completely at odds with the mainstream scientific opinion," said Colin Wilson, a planetary physicist at England's Oxford University.

The end of a good thing.

As many of you know, I was the Cubmaster for the local Cub Scout pack in my hometown and I stepped down a few years ago and handed it off to a very capable person to keep the program going and growing. And this person did a great job of it, at least until, it became to much for some other people in the organization to allow a woman to be in charge of the pack. For the last two years, the current cub master has been brow beat, un-duly influenced, coerced, backstabbed and undermined in as many different ways as you could imagine by members of the pack committee. Many friendships have been dashed apart because of this style of leadership and in the end it has hurt the program as a whole. Recently, the cub master stepped down from the position and for good reason and I cannot blame her at all. Even her assistant wants nothing to do with the program as he does not want to be manipulated and worked as a puppet for a program he has no investment in anymore. (His son is no longer a cub scout but rather a boy scout.) In addition, I stepped down as a committee member and as a advancements chairman, and a few other people in the group stepped down for maybe the same reasons as I mentioned above or for their own, but all in all, it was pretty much a wiping of the slate for current committee members and leaders. To solve this problem, a family meeting was held to find new talent and volunteers for the organization. I did not attend the meeting as I do not want to be associated with the leadership at the current time, and I did not want to be involved anymore. However, I did hear from those that attended that the focus of the program will now, no longer be about the boys, but what works for the adults who lead the group. I heard that a large number of activities and events that I and my successor worked hard to develop are being eliminated because, "while the kids love it, it is a hassle for the leaders and adults." Big freaking deal! Because it is designed for the boys is the reason the kids love it! It is not about the leadership, it is a program for the boys. Since when do people (and I mean adults) who volunteer in organizations like scouts and things like that think that it is all about them and how much recognition they can get, instead of putting their time and talents toward helping boys develop, grow, mature and become men? I think it is people who have never had any kind of real recognition in their life or maybe have done nothing that proves that they matter. The committee leadership that picked and poked and tore apart the group so that they could have it their way, got exactly what they wanted. A group that is all about them. This cub scout organization that I worked so hard to develp and make a fun program for the BOYS has been destroyed all because of some people's egos. To these people I say, grow up! It ain't about you. I am sad that this local group will now founder and fall and ultimately fail those it is supposed to help, the boys of my hometown. But those that brought it down can blame only themselves for what it will become.

I am glad I stepped away when I did. I am only sorry that so many friendships were damaged over this matter. If you find yourself in a situation similar to this, simply walk away while you can. Cut your losses and hopefully you will retain some of your friendships and dignity.

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I am still here!

Sorry to everyone, or anyone for that matter, that reads this blog. I have been terribly busy with a fundraising event that has pretty much occupied almost all of my time. Writing in a blog was pretty much the last thing I was thinking about. My apologies. I will attempt to get something worthwhile in here by the end of the month at the very least. Lots of new things are coming up that I can comment on for you to read about or ignore, so stay tuned!

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Stop Yer Whining!

Last night, I was watching the TiVo (and if you don't have TiVo, you should consider it) with my wife and she was catching up on some of her Oprah shows. This particular episode was one of those feel good shows that she often has on, but this one in particular had a pastor from a church in Kansas that started a movement based on the 11th commandment... "Thou Shalt Not Whine." It is a movement to reduce the amount of complaining in the world. He believes that the amount of trouble and strife in the world is directly proportional to the amount of whining and complaining that people do and that if people can make an effort to quit complaining about things, then the stress and strife might be reduced. It kind of go to the idea that the more you focus on something (good or bad) the more it is amplified and expanded. If you bitch and moan about your horrible lot in life, then your life just gets worse and vice versa.

Anyway, he came up with the idea to wear a purple arm band on your right wrist and to try and go 21 days without complaining about anything. (At least out loud as far as I can tell.) If you do find yourself complaining you are supposed to switch the armband to the other wrist and start over on a new 21 days. (21 days is supposed to be the number of days needed to break or start a new habit)

You can find out more about this program at http://acomplaintfreeworld.org/ I know that way too many of my friends complain about way to much. I too complain about too much when in reality, I really have very little to complain about. Things are pretty good for me and my family. So my wife ordered some of these for us and friends. Check back later to see what happens! And stop whining about it!

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A Dead Serious Weekend

Wow! What a great and incredibly busy weekend for my family! Where do I start? How about...

FRIDAY... that seems like a good place. Let's see. On Friday after work, we needed to get alot of shopping done for a number of reasons. My wife was hosting a baby shower for a good friend of ours, and we as a family would be hosting a couple of young ladies in our home as they and their performing troupe brought their play to our little town. After getting everything purchased we headed home and tried to get the house ready for our guests and get everything organized for rest of the weekend. Finding a bit of down time, we watched a movie and relaxed before heading over to our church around 10pm to recieve the "Mish Kids" from the Cincinnati, Ohio region. These teenaged kids and the adults that travel with them, are actors, stage crew, and support staff of a show called "Dead Serious... About Life." This is a show that lays bare the problems that many teenaged and some pre-teen kids face everyday of their lives. It show the effects of teen sex, drinking, drug use, abuse, and ridicule. Up to this point I had not heard of the show before, but the church was sponsoring the play and we had signed up to host some of the troupe members. The "Mish-Kids" pulled in just a little after 10:15pm or so and we got to meet the two wonderful young ladies that would be staying with us. Heather and Suzanne were to stay with us and would depend on us for lodging, food, and travel while in town. It was late and they looked tired and hungry so we headed home, got them a bite to eat and get them settled in.

Dead Serious... about Dancing!
SATURDAY... Saturday morning came and as usual, Gunnar the wonder dog was the first one up and as is the norm, that makes me the second one up. He headed downstairs to go lick the faces of our sleepy headed guests, but I stopped him. After all, they had travelled a long way and had a very long day ahead of them, so I let them sleep. After a while, though, I had to get them moving because they had an entire stage to set up, a play to rehearse, and show to perform, all by 6pm that day. I have not had teenage girls in my house for any length of time, so I got a quick lesson in the amount of time needed for the girls to get ready. I can fully imagine that I will be experiencing this first hand soon, as Cora grows up and enters her teen years. Despite all my fears that I might not have awoken them in time, they were up, dressed, fed and ready to go! I dropped them off at the school and left them to go to my next appointment... getting things gathered up to feed all of the performers and crew at the school and helping my wife get her stuff gathered for the baby shower. I helped her get ready and then I met up with our pastor, got the food together and made it back to the school in time to set up and be met with 45 hungry teenagers. One and a half hours later, I was heading back home from the school, and took in a bit of a breather with my son in the form of XBOX.
Then, the big plan of the day... a date with my daughter! (See "Dancing with the Girls" from the March 2006 posting... check the archive) It was the annual Daddy-Daughter dance sponsored by the Girl Scouts. We had a dinner reservation at 5pm at the local eatery, and then off to the dance at 6pm. Man! What a great turn out! The dance floor was packed with dozens and dozens of frilly dressed little girls and almost as many well dressed dads, grandpas, step dads, and brothers or other male dates for the dance. And it did not take long before everyone of those little girls was out dancing with their dates... whether the dads wanted to or not! My daughter and I danced for two solid straight hours and had a blast! It was totally fun and almost too short of a time together! But we were there until 8:30pm and I had to head out again to get Suzanne and Heather at 9pm. I would have to get them home, feed them, let them relax, and hopefully get them a good nights sleep for the next day's performance. It was nice having them back in the house again. We did not get much time to visit and get to know each other better, so we took some time to do so before calling it a night. Apparently the play went well and the turnout was good. I would not be seeing it until the next day, but I had already heard great things about it from them and others, so I was really looking forward to it.

Dead Serious...about Life

SUNDAY.. the day of the play. I hated doing it, but I had to wake the girls up early so that we could attend the 8am chuch service all together. I was glad the Suzanne and Heather decided to forgo the teen Sunday School gathering to instead hang out with us at the house. The initial feeling of uncomfortableness that all strangers have was pretty much gone, and by the time lunch was ready, my kids, and my "mish kids" were hanging out playing HALO having a good time, and the girls felt comfortable enough to dance around in the kitchen to the music on the XM satellite. It is funny to think that they were doing the same thing that we do as a family when we are feeling happy and a bit silly. It was a good feeling. I felt like we had succeeded in making them feel at home. But our time was coming to an close soon. The girls had to pack their stuff and get back to the school for the last performance. The show was at 2pm and I would be with the Church confirmation class to see the show. We were told to sit apart from the kids so that they could take it in without the watchful eye of their parents. Actually, I preferred this, as I could then concentrate on the play myself.

In a nutshell, WOW. What a great play. It is not like it was the best play I have ever seen, it was just that it was the best play about the pressures and troubles facing teens I have ever seen. It was pretty emotionally raw in some places and it did not neccessarily end on a happy note. It was not overly preachy but sent a great message, and it even gave members of the audience a chance to go back and talk with people who were just willing to listen. The message was a faith based message, but the biggest message the play tried to get across to the teens in the audience, or anyone for that matter, was to just talk to someone and don't try to face your problems on your own. My son thought it was an awesome play and I saw quite a large number of thoughtful, or even tearful faces in the audience and a fair number of audience members did take part of the listening room. It was a very uplifting experience. I highly recommend it for any community. You can find out more about it at http://www.mish-inc.com/ You will not be sorry.

Then, we finally had to say good by to our "girls," Suzanne and Heather. They were here for such a short time, but they were so fantastic that I will miss them. If the play comes back to this area, I am definately going to request that we be allowed to host them again if the circumstances allow. It was a great time.

That night, it was a very deep night of sleep. I was Dead Serious... about sleeping.


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News from the Neutral Zone...

It is official! Star Trek XI is off the ground and looking for a landing in Christmas of 2008! And the best part, it will focus on the ORIGINAL Star Trek story and characters! Don't get me wrong, Next Gen, DS9 and Enterprise were great shows, (notice I left out Voyager) but they can't hold a candle to the original shows.

Check out the link below for more info!

http://www.eonline.com/news/article/index.jsp?uuid=b3ea9976-ddad-47f6-b0e8-f8f599de18e3

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If you want...

If you want what you have, then you have what you want.


Given to me in a Valentine's card. Think about it. It makes great sense.

This beastly body...

"We are constantly confronted with the limitations of the body. My body seems a mere encumbrance to me; an imbecilic wagon, hitched to horses of desire, which is the soul. Without my body, I feel I could spurn the earth and mount to those vast, sapphiric peaks of accomplishment and soluble mystery which by reason of my lumbering and utterly useless body, I can but catch brief glimpses, across the uninteresting and monotonous expanses of worldly life.
Yet, it may be that this beastly body of mine has a purpose. Perhaps abstract desire must take concrete form ere any step can be made toward accomplishment and knowledge."

Robert E. Howard, letter to Tevis Clyde Smith, Jr.
Aug. 28, 1925
(Robert E. Howard, Selected Letters, 1923-1930. Necronomicon Press, 1989)

Why did I post this? Any number of reasons but mainly two... First off I thought it would be an interesting and thought provoking statement, especially when some discover that it was written by the creator of the pulp fiction Conan the Barbarian character. Most who have never read the stories by Robert E. Howard, think of him only as a superficial fantasy writer that deals only in blood and gore. Again, that is because they have never read the Howard stories.

Secondly, I love the analogy of the soul, being compared to a team of horses. The horses of desire. It clicks with my feelings that a soul, while an incorporeal and intangible thing, is still a part of the human body and life, just as much as the heart, lungs or any other internal organ is. Without a soul, I don't think that we would be anything more than just another animal. A soul to me is God's fingerprint on us all, being made in his likeness. And it always seems to me, looking for a way out of the body to soar to a higher peak. And this is why I think humans always strive to attain and accomplish more than what they have. The soul is looking for a better place, a better life, a place where the soul can soar.

Enjoy...

Later!

It's almost time...

Last week, after suffering through a blinding blizzard and some really damned cold temperatures in my part of Illinois, the state did what it does best and flip flopped completely in the weather department. We had some really nice temperatures last week, sometimes topping out in to the 50's. It was nice and gave those of us who have motorcylces a tast of what is to come and made some of us consider getting the beasties out of hibernation. At the same time, one of my favorite motorcycle accessory producers; Kuryakyn, sent me the new 2007 catalog of things to spend my money on. But what was really neat was their philosophy behind making all the cool products that they make. From the letter in the catalog:

"Our ideas are products of creative minds that realize a motorcycle isn't simply a means of transportation, but ratehr a representation of a person's very identity. We firmly believe that a motorcycle adventure isn't just a destination, but also the quality and enjoyment of the excursion and the pride of making your motorcycle a tourist attraction at every stop along the way."

This should be called the "Way Cool Philosophy of the Two Wheeled Brotherhood."

Here's to hoping for warmer weather... it is almost time!

later!

Gunnar - King of the Hill

Gunnar - King of the Hill
Originally uploaded by cgeiken.

A great photo of Gunnar. he literally could not wait to get out into the drifts and snow. By the end of the day he was one pooped puppy!

My wife just discovered that I can post photos directly to my blog from "flickr.com." So, you will probably see alot more photos on the postings! Cool for you and easy for me!

As you can see, Gunnar is at the top of a 4.5 foot snow drift. This was before the snow plow made it another 1 or more taller. I have not seen snow like this around here for maybe 12 years or more. This is kind of reminisent of the snow fall I remember as a kid.

Later!

Later

The Valentine's day Birthday Boy

Kids feeding Gunnar his birthday cake
Originally uploaded by cgeiken.

Here is a photo of Gunnar and the kids with his birthday cake. Notice how intently Gunnar is focused on the cake. That is because it was made with a can of dog food, two eggs, a cup of flour and some milk. It looked just like a cake but smelled like something much different. He absolutely loved it. He is even so well behaved as to not eat until he is given permission!

Valentine's day is OK again...

Okay again you ask? What could I possibly mean? Hasn't Valentine's Day always been okay and a good day? Well, as a matter of fact, for my wife and I, it has not always been the best of days to express our love and affection for one another. To begin with, in the past, we always seemed to try too hard, or were too poor, or something got in the way of making it a nice day to enjoy. My wife had one of her favorite cats die on Valentine's day. One of our biggest and nastiest fights came on Valentine's day. Eventually, we just stopped recognizing Valentine's day and things seemed to be much better on that day. Nothing big, just a card and a small treat and it was all good. Sometimes when you try to put too much into a particular day, be it Valentine's or a birthday, or maybe even a big holiday, you can include too much stress and a day that is supposed to be special, instead turns out to be a big mistake and a disaster.

My wife and I have only casually observed Valentine's Day for the last umpteen years or so and it has been good for us, but we never really acknowledged the day as "Valentine's Day." It was just another day. But I think that all of that has changed for us now. We have another reason to celebrate the big "V" day.

Our wonderfully loveable, well behaved, handsome, protective, and incredibly smart dog, GUNNAR was born on Valentine's day of 2006. This year, we got to celebrate his birthday in addition to doing all the regular Valentine type of stuff. We did not go all out for the Valentine stuff... cards for each other and the kids, some treats and a nice meal out was the order of the day. I liked it. Nothing big, nothing outlandish. (I did get some "Sharries Berries" in the mail from my wife... gourmet choclate covered strawberries... oh. my. God. Yum.) And, along with the Valentine day stuff, we got to lavish attention and love on our pooch. We even made a dog food based birthday cake for him. (We have entered into that realm of crazy dog owners, I know...) He loved the cake! We even shared it with some of his doggie buddies. It didn't hurt that we had a huge snow storm that socked us in for two days and the kids were out of school, we were off work, and he could have us to himself for as much as he wanted. He loves playing in the snow! It was a good day for him and for us.

So... Valentine's day is back on the calendar for me. I will never again make it a huge day, because after all, it is just a Hallmark Holiday, but now it is more for my family and I.

Happy Birthday to Gunnar Valentin Von Geiken (yes, there is no "e" on the end of his middle name, the "i" is pronounced as an "ee")


Later!

Sleeping in the Cold!

Greetings from frozen Illinois! This last weekend, I had the particular joy of spending time with my Boy Scout Troop at the Annual Klondike Derby. Unlike the last two years, it was actually cold this year, but with not much more snow than the last two Klondikes. (More frozen mud and grass than snow.) For many of you out there, spending two nights in below freezing temperatures may not sound like a lot of fun to you, but this is one of the highlights of my year. Camping with the scouts is always fun, but joining them in the Klondike, trying to take home the prize and then working with them to stay warm, entertained and fed is also enjoyable. This year was no different. We did have a few scouts that were not as well prepared for the weather as they should have been and it did affect our performance, and most certainly theirs. We tried our best to get them comfortable, but in the end, I think it will be a learning experience for those boys.

One of the things I like best about hanging out with the Scouts is interacting with them on a level of not a scout leader but as a friend. I usually try to involve myself in some of their conversations, games and activities. I have even begun to be the game master for the troop. The boys love having some of the new and different games that I bring along to play after all the planned activities have ended. Let's face it, sometimes even Boy Scout Camp can be boring after hours, so I figured that having fun, easy to play games ready to go would help keep them from getting in trouble or at least keep the whining down.

All of the boys, or at least a very large majority of them, are a sheer pleasure to be around. I like to think that while they see me as one of their leaders they also see me as a friend. And even more so, I really am starting to see how my son is starting to take a role as a leader in the group, especially with some of the younger ones. And he is even starting to stand out among the older boys, even if he does not stand up for himself strongly enough. A case in point is during one of the activities at the Klondike, my son had the correct answer and method for accomplishing a goal, but the older boys decided to do it their own way, which in the end, turned out to be wrong. They should have worked together and listened to their other fellow scouts and maybe they would have done better.

Over all, the whole scouting experience is a great thing for me. I never got to be in Scouts as a kid so I am kind of experiencing this whole adventure along with my son. So far, it has been a fun ride.

Until next time!

later!

Book Recommendations...

Greetings!
I don't think I have given any book recommendations in a while, or any for that matter. But recentlyI have read a book that was such fun and heartwarming to read that I must encourage the rest of you to read it. It is "Marley and Me: Life and Love with the World's Worst Dog." byt Jack Grogan. For anyone that is a dog owner, especially a big dog owner, you must read this book. It is the misadventures of a horribly behaved dog that does so much wrong but get it right at just the precise time that he will remind you or your own dog eventually. It is a true story and filled with laugh out loud stories, stories that will tug your heart strings and maybe make you cry, and with good lessons for all of us two legged animals that only a dog can teach us. And for those of you who have an older dog, or maybe have recently lost your dog, it will be amazingly hard to read the last three chapters, so I warn you now, be prepared, not so much as the sadness of the end, but more so for the insight into the passing of a pet. Believe me, it will make so much sense to you that you will wish that you had thought of it yourself.

So go out and get "Marley and Me." You will not be disappointed.

Other Quickie Recommendations:

Quicksilver by Neal Stephenson (Historical Fiction)
The Complete Roman Army by Adrian Goldsworthy (Military History)
Eragon by Christopher Paolini (Fantasy)

What's new and what was old...

Welcome to 2007! The first post of the new year! I have not posted in such a long time, the last time being the posts from Las Vegas, because it has just been too darned busy to write a blog entry. Bad for me... I will endeavor to do better...

Since the last post, an anniversary, Christmas, New Years, and a 40th Birthday have come and gone.

My wife and I celebrated our 16th anniversary in late December with a quite dinner together and a get together with some friends at a local watering hole. It was a nice time, but I cannot wait until these bars in our area are SMOKE FREE! Yee-gahds I hate smelling like tobacco smoke. I supposed that if cigarette smoke smelled like pipe tobacco, people might not mind as much, but as it is, good riddance to the smokers, or at least to their nasty little habit.

Christmas is always a good time, however, it is not my favorite time of the year, nor my favorite holiday. Too much goes into making Christmas the holiday we expect... lots of lights, bigs trees, lots of food, tons of gifts and all the other things that make it what it is. I often wonder what Christmas' were like 200-300 years ago. I think I might like that level of celebration better. Now, mind you, I for one am not complaining about the great gifts I receive or give, but maybe some of the effort and money spent on getting these gifts and making the big parties and the elborate decorations might be better spent on spending more time together in a quieter setting. But then again, with my family, there is nothing small or quiet and yet, it is still a great time and would not miss it for the world. Maybe this is what makes Christmas such a delima for me. I am wanting more (or less, more specifically) but really enjoy and look forward to the chaos that celebrating Christmas with my family is. This year was especially good, because my sister
and brother came up with family from Texas and we had a great time together. It was good having everyone back in one place.

Next, was the New Years eve party. We have started in the last few years, a travelling, or progressive dinner party with friends from the neighborhood. It has been a really good time with some really great meals. No one, except for the person that hosts the end of the evening party really has to deal with much of a mess for very long and the guests only stay about 1.5 hours at each dinner site. It is a good time for my family. We really enjoy it. But this year, something changed! My son decided to head off on his own for a party with some of his friends. It was kind of weird not having him around. I guess I should start getting used to this. As he grows, he is going to be doing less and less with us and more with his friends. Hopefully he was taught well and there will be nothing for us to worry about as he heads out on his own more often.

Resolutions are something that were missing from this new year party again. No one mentioned that they had any, so I guess they are gonna keep doing what they have been doing in the past. My resolutions, and I make some every year are pretty short. First: To count to 10 more often and handle my kids like I do my dog. Second: To help my wife get back into shape. She is too sexy to be out of shape! That is it, but I still have to keep up with the other resolutions from years past... they don't expire, you know!

Finally, to end the holiday, or to start the New Year, my wonderful wife turned 40 on the 4th! With her help we planned a party at a friends house and invited a large number of people to join us. However, even though it was my wife who was turning 40, it was a large number of our friends who were acting either childish, or very old and could not come out and play with us. It was a bit of a disappointment for my wife, but to those who came to the party, it turned out to be a very fun one. It was great to have the family and friends who came and I thank them for it. It was however, a disappointment to have many people say they were coming to attend but then, with out notice, not make a showing. Too bad for them. Not only that, it seems to be to be rude. It did upset my wife a bit, and that makes me sad, and a bit angry, because my wife deserves the best. She sacrificed her 40th birthday present of planning a cruise, in lieu of sending our son to Europe on an ambassador trip, and I wanted to make it as nice as possible. And the gifts... not that she needed any, but sometimes a nice gift on your birthday from someone who gave it some thought, makes you feel good about yourself and gives you that warm fuzzy feeling. However, aside from a few gifts from myself and family, what upset me (and I am sure her) was the lack of communication or gifts from her family on her big day. They failed miserably. That is all I will say about that. But it was sad comment on the lack of effort on such a big day. I know it bothered her but she did not say anything.

So that is all for now on what has been happening since I last posted. I will endeavor to do better. The writing muse has been sleeping lately, and little has come to mind to post about, but I will try.

Until then however,

Happy New Year!

Later

Vegas Day Six. Geek day, last day...

The last official day in Las Vegas for us and the first half was dedicated to being a Star Trek Geek... We took the monorail over to LV Hilton and the Star Trek Experience. We went on the 2 interactive, 4D type of shows. They were pretty fun and I even think I got a bit motion sick! They had a nice display of props and stuff from the TV series and the movies and a pretty cool gift shop full of stuff for Star Trek fans. We then headed down to Quark's bar which was made up to look like the set from the DS9 tv series. The food was pretty good and decently priced. My wife even got to rub the ears of the resident Ferengi owner. Apparently not every one can do that for free! I even enjoyed a glass of Romulan Ale, direct from the Neutal Zone! It was a good time and a good way to spend part of the last day. After that we went to the convention center where there was a Cowboy Christmas going on that was there for the Rodeo Finals. I have never been to something like this but there were more hats and boots and creased denim than you can shake a stick at. I many ways, it was no different than the gaming conventions I have been to, except that the geeks at this convention call themselves cowboys and cowgirls and the ones I go to, we call ourselves geeks....

Later than night we decided to eat late as we had been eating pretty much all day long, and we had a free $50 certificate to Nine Fine Irishmen, compliments of the Tahiti Village sales seminar... So to pass the time we walked over to the M&M store again for some gifts for the kids and then over to the Coyote Uglybar at New York, New York. Coyote Ugly, if you have never been before is a bar run for and by women. And the women who work there are smart, sassy and sexy. They control everything that goes on at the bar. The only male presence I saw were the two bouncers and they were under the direct control of the ladies at the bar. They gave all the women in the establishment free shots. (my wife did partake of about 6 of them!) and they made the guys pay for the music on the jukebox and required us to do certain things to get shots. I volunteered to get shots but didn't know what to expect. Luckily they only made us do a dance off. Me and three other guys in the middle of the bar dancing for a shot from between the bar mistress's legs... what guys will do for a pretty girl with free drinks... I did my best but got beat out because some cowboy had like a 1000 of his friends there and I lost and took 2nd. he got the shots, I got a kiss from my wife... I think I won in the end after all! It was really cool and very fun. I would definately go back there.
After that we had reservations for 9pm at Nine Fine Irishmen and eat some great(Free) food and listened to a great Irish band with a stepdancer that could have been in RiverDance. It was a great way to end the week in Vegas. It was very late and we were to leave for home tomorrow in the morning so it was the end of the vacation. Time well spent and much money not very well spent. Next time we go we will have to go with a bunch of friends. I think it would be even more fun!

Time to go!

later!

Vegas... Day five Real estate and proof that real men eat PINK!

Okay.. so this is day five and we are gonna pay for being naive and obvious tourists. The very first day and not more than three hours on the ground and we get suckered into one of the many "Free show and dinner specials" that it seems everyone wants to give you. We got snagged in New York, New York, and we were talked into doing a 2.5 hour seminar/business pitch to look at some time share property in Vegas. For doing it, we would get a free show... Lance Burton, magician, and $50 in meal tickets to a decent restaurant. Ok. So we did it. We were picked up at 8:45am to go tot Tahiti Village to have people talk to us about how cheap and smart for us to buy into a time share. Sure it would be if you liked coming back to Vegas every year and you consider $1200 a year cheap for a vacation. It was funny though that the guy trying to sell us on this deal was from Broadlands, Illinois! Small freaking world. He should have known right off the bat that midwestern, central Illinoisians are not going to give over $4,000 down in a matter of minutes while on vacation... Anyway, we got our tickets and certificate and a thank you and we were dropped back off where we got on. So now what... It was near noon and we would have to try and get and get a ride to the Star Trek experience. Sounded like a lot of work so we decided to go back to the hotel and make use of our room..............................................

Later that day..... We headed out and got some food at Planet Hollywood and then hoofed it over to the Monte Carlo to see the show. Surprisingly, we had some good seats and the show was darned good and fun! Not bad for sitting through a sales pitch! On the way back we caught another Bellagio fountain show... very nice as always... and decided to go get some more fabulous desserts at the little French style dessert stand. That is when I got my Rose Macaroon. The bright pink dessert! Man was it good, and man was it pink! It had a rose petal encrusted in sugar, fresh raspberries and custard inside with cookie type top and bottom. You had to work hard to get the goodies in between the pink parts but once you got there, it is sooo good that you want to go back and get more as soon as possible! (Breakfast??!?!)

Well, then it was late and we headed back to the Caesar and its friendly confines. Oh and I have not mentioned... one of the coolest things about walking the Strip.... there is a constant music soundtrack everywhere you go. Like carrying your XM radio on your favorite channel all day long! It was off for a short while at the hotel and it was like everything was shut down. I missed it! Weird...

Well that is all for now... Tomorrow... Geek Day.

Later

Vegas Day four...Chocolate and gambling

Today was a very lazy day, and at some points, boring. Yeah.. go figure! Bored in Las Vegas... but it can happen, especially if you can't justify over priced shopping or are not going to gamble and you don't have a car!

The conference was in its final day and was expected to last well into the afternoon, so i spend a big part of the day doing some reading and some tv watching. No Star Trek Experience today...
I did go out and do some people watching which can be quite entertaining in itself.

I talked with the kids and even got to talk to the dog, all of which made me a bit homesick, but it was better once my wife was done with the conference. When we got together, we decided to walk over to the Bellagio, the one hotel we had not been in yet. When we got there, we saw a very impressive set of Christmas decorations made up of giant polar bears and reindeer made up of carnations and pecans. They also have a huge tree with dancing water spouts around it. But that was nothing compared to the chocolate fountain at the little shop around the corner at Jean Phillipe's You can see part of it on the last photo. We couldn't resist the temptation to buy come good European chocolate and shared a small chocolate mousse cake. WOW was it good!

Later we went back to the Caesar and had some food and did a bit of gambling. The photo was not supposed to be taken in the casino, but the guy at the wheel of fortune said he would look the other way. We did not do to badly, turning $10 into $34. So, there. We gambled in Las Vegas. Now we are official non-virgins to Vegas.

Tomorrow we are planned to do a tour at a time share to get free tickets and dinner, something most wide eyed tourists get roped into while in Vegas. So. until day Five, see you later.

Vegas... Day three... lots to do!

Day three and I think that we had our busiest of the days so far. After my wife's conference was done in the afternoon, we headed out on foot to go see the sites. And we did a bunch! We went and hobnobbed with the stars at Madam Tossouds Wax Museum. It is creepy how life like they are!

Then we were off to see some of the other sites at the hotels along the strip. We went in to most of them and compared to the Ceasar's, they seem to be of lesser quality. We have yet to see the inside of the Bellagio so we will can't comment on that yet.

We did take the ride up to the top of the Eiffel Tower at Paris-Las Vegas. It afforded a great veiw of the strip and the surrounding countryside. We even saw the fountains do their dance again from 50 stories up!

We headed south on the strip again and checked out the Luxor which is just HUGE! But like so many of the others, the Casino is the main attraction and it looked just like all the others. On the way back up the strip we stopped at the M&MM World store and shopped around. You can see in the photo all the 22 colors of M&M's bu we only ever get to see about 7 of them in the commercial market. We bought some for the kids. It was neat to see the colors you never see in packages.

We got back to the hotel later that afternoon and made use of the huge jaccuzzi and got ready to head out for dinner. We got to eat at SPAGOS, which is the famous restaurant owned by Wolfgang Puck. Man, it was some good food, but like everything else in Vegas, expensive.

Later we headed over to the Venetian for a gondola ride and a bit of shopping at the Blue Man Group store. My son Julian would love this store...

I purchased tickets for the Star Trek Experience which we will do on Wednesday so expect some photos of geeks tomorrow!

Gotta run! Later!

Las Vegas .. Day 2. The expensive and the ridiculous

Hey! Day 2 in Las Vegas and we still have not gambled. Probably because it cost so much for everything else that I can't hardly stand to give out the last few dollars in my pocket... Let's see, $5 for a water, $35 for breakfast, and $12 a day to just use the internet. But in the end, a big portion will be paid back from the conference re-imbursement. Monday was a lazy day. I headed out to the Forum Shops and quickly found that if you do not make at least $100.000 annually, you really can't afford to shop there. There are some high class establishments there that sell some really nice stuff and I would love to relieve them of some of their inventory, but alas, it is far to expensive. We did alot of window shopping which can be just as tiring as the real shopping. A nap was definately in order for the afternoon. We did not really have any plans other than exploring the strip a little more and a nice dinner out, especially since the last place was kind of a disappointment.
We set out but not before my wife tried her hand goosing the 16ft DAVID statue in the middle of the Appian Way in the Hotel.

Our dinner reservation was at a place called Sushi Roku, which looked nice from the description. And we were not dissappointed! It had a great selection and a great view. Nicely priced and great service. I even found a new appetizer that I will have to try to make at home!

After the our meal we headed in the opposite direction that we traveled last time and went to see the pirate show at Treasure Island but found it shut down for renovation. Oh well. More walking and we finally ended up at the Venetian Hotel. Nice looking place but it smelled funny. It is supposed to look like Venice with a canal and Gondola boats and all. Very cool. We are gonna go back for a boat ride I think. We walked around the shopping area, which you can see looks like a town square. It was here that I found the most ridiculous and expensive thing I have ever seen. It was at a watch and timepeice shop. A watch caught my eye and I asked about it. The clerk said they carried it and there were only two of them left and were $56,000.00 each. It did not register to me immediately that he had just said $56,000.00 for a watch! It was about 10 seconds later when I saw the price tag that it sunk in. There is a watch on the market that costs more than it cost me to buy my house! And then looking more closely, my wife pointed out a pocket watch that was $66,000.00!!! You gotta be kidding! Who buys this stuff!?

anyway... we walked some more and made our plans for Tuesday and it should be fun. The Tossaud's wax museum, the Eiffel tower and the M&M store! Funny, no mention of gambling yet.. maybe we should do that.

Later!

Vegas... Day one

Hey Hey! We are in Vegas! Cool city! The flight was great as we got bumped to first class with a great meal, glasses of wine and a very talkative flight attendant. Nice comfy chairs too!

We got in around 1pm Vegas time and went right to Ceasar Palace where we a staying. Lots of cool Roman design! This is neat as I am exploring doing a Roman Persona for history demos and school demos and such. Very, very nice place! And Huge! I was a bit dissappointed that there are no Roman types here and it seems that there is no vomitorium.... dang... I thought for Vegas, something as tacky as that would be here.

Anyway, the room is nice and the bathroom is great! Big shower, jaccuzzi tub and two sinks. Big soft bed and plenty of room.

After recharging from the plane ride, we set out to find New York, New York, where we would eat and then see out first show in Vegas. We ate in an Italian restaurant that had great food but crappy service, so I will speak no more of it. The show we were to see was in the same area so we strolled around and waited for the doors to open. It is Zumanity by Cirque Du Soleil. WOW! It is a show that celebrates sexuality, sensuality and erotic humanity with a bit of drama, acrobatics, dancing, and singing with lots of great music. Performed mostly by primarily naked or topless Cirque peformers, it is a show that can take you out of your comfort zone, especially when the performers come down to your seat and interact with you in ways, that most strangers do not on a regular basis. (think groping and dry humping in some aspects) Overall, it was a fantastic performance! (the photo on the right is one of the performers... Antonio el 7", who made it his job to take us out of our comfort zone.)

After the show were walked back past the Bilagio and watched the fountains. It was cool.

Back to the hotel and to bed. My wife's conference is tomorrow. I will go out and explore and see what there is do see. More tomorrow then! I will try to post photos if possible!

The photos were added after I wrote this so, they are out of order. The first one is of me on a BED at the pool where you could relax, sleep or conceivably, have sex on (draw the curtains) if you so desired while visiting the pool. The second photo is one of my famous "arm shots" at the New York, New York casino. The thirds is explained above.

Later!

Rootin' Tootin' good holiday!

Hello all! It has been a while since I have felt the creative urge to write anything! I still do not feel all the creative, but I thought I would put down what a traditional Thanksgiving Holiday is for my family. Thanksgiving, is as you know, the forgotten holiday... it gets forgotten between Halloween and Christmas, except by those brave souls that venture out for the early morning Black Friday shopping extravaganza.

However, Thanksgiving is not forgotten by our family. No.. as a matter of fact, it is something that is looked forward to. Not just because we get together and eat more than we should, but because we break out our shootin' irons and have a great time shooting at clay pigeons, stationary targets, beer cans, dirt clods, etc. etc.... It is a great time. This last weekend for the holiday, we had wonderful weather and made the most of it. We gobbled (no pun intended) our food down and headed out behind my dad's barn and started blasting! This was even better for me, because for the first time, my son was able to join in with his own shotgun, and he showed himself to be a very good shot and very responsible with the gun... maybe more so than some of the adults! And to top it off, my wife joined in and also proved to be pretty good! I think she was the best shooter of the girls that were also shooting with us! It was kick ass! It is a real treat for me to see my family do well at stuff like this, especially since it is such a big part of my and my family tradition! But more importantly it is great to see us all having such a great time. My dad keeps talking about wanting to sell his place and move to the big city of 850 people down the road. I can understand his reasoning, but a move like this will kill a tradition like our Turkey Day shoot out. But, that is neither here not there and as long as we can get together as a family to do this stuff and keep on having a great time together, we will. Christmas is coming up and it is looking to be another big family get together. And I am sure that there will be more good times like there were for Thanksgiving. Who says that guns can't create family togetherness!


Later!

ps..
I am headed to Las Vegas in a day or two... Maybe I will post some stuff from Sin City! We will see! What goes on in Las Vegas is not necessarily supposed to leave Las Vegas!

2 year anniversary!

Well! It has been two years since I started this little blog. In that time I think it has become more of an open diary than anything else. What will the next two years bring? Maybe somewhere, way down the line, like 70 years from now, someone will use it to add stuff to my eulogy. (yes, I plan to be around for the next Halley's comet) Anyway, rather than add something new, I am going to republish some of my first writings for you. So here is one of my early favorites.
Enjoy!

MY Manifesto....
This is something I had prepared for a Survivor Audition Tape but at the last minute decided to do something different. However, everything in my little manifesto is still true. Never did get on that stupid show...
Who I am is a husband, a father, and a son. Who I am is someone who believes that without the Father, Son and Holy Ghost, you can never find real happiness or prosperity.

I believe that it takes a real man to find a woman who is your soul-mate and love her for the rest of your life.

I believe that most modern Americans are soft, lazy and over legislated, but we are still the greatest nation history has ever known.

Politically, I think most left wingers and liberals are self-loathing whiners who want Americans to be hand fed by the government.
I believe that to hunt, track and kill wild game is the best way to get closer to being a natural person, not wearing sandals, eating tofu and hugging trees. Vegetarianism is unnatural.

And speaking of things like hunting, gun control is hitting your target on the first shot.

Drugs, even casual use drugs, are for losers. I’ve never used them, never will.

I have never much been interested in athletics, but believe that to let oneself go physically is a sin. I believe in staying in the best shape that one can.

And speaking of athletes, I think most professional athletes are over-sexed, over-medicated, moral degenerates that have no place being role models for our kids.

My biggest regret is not joining the military service. I would have made a great soldier.

Living outdoors, sleeping under the stars, without a whole lot, or very little modern conveniences, is what I call a vacation.

I am a great liar. But I have a guilty conscience so, I hate to lie. But when needed, you will never know I am doing it.

I believe that in order to have friends, you must be, and act like a friend.

Are you in a play or something?

As many of you know, I will at times, give historical demos and talks at local schools or for schools around the area. Part of the reason I do it is to justify the time and cost that goes into making up a "kit" for these demos. Another reason is to get a bit of money on the side. But most importantly, I like doing them so that I can make learning history fun and exciting. Many would agree that history classes can be dreadfully boring, especially with all the names and dates and such. However, having someone like a re-enactor come in to show students the clothing, equipment, weapons and armor of a soldier from a by gone time, can fuel some real enthusiasm in some kids. Below is a letter that was forwarded to me from a teacher at a school were I did a talk on the Middle Ages. This was in the spring of this current year, but I recently came across it and thought I would share it with you all. It is letters like this that makes doing these demos all the more rewarding...


Hello all,
> > Just wanted you to know that Ryan LOVED Medieval Day,
> and that is
> > an understatement! He raved about it all Friday night and
> at 10 P.M.
> > asked me if I wanted to hear all about from start to finish
> and I said
> > sure.
> > "Well, we started with the Pledge of Allegiance . . ."
> (honest!)
> > and I think I heard every detail of the day until I told
> him we both
> > had to go to bed at midnight. It was a beautiful day of integrated
> > learning for him and he was full of questions, ideas, and,
> most of all
> > enthusiasm. It provoked discussions of Eastern and Western
> cultures,
> > the role of alchemy in evolution of chemistry, cooking and eating
> > habits, weapons and defense, falconry, and much more. As he is
> > relating all this to me while he is jumping, jumping,
> jumping on his
> > trampoline, he exclaimed, "I think it was the best day of
> my life!"
> > Then he paused and said that perhaps that was an exaggeration and
> > thought about it for a minute and then said, "I can't think
> of any better ones."
> > His good mood lasted all weekend as his dad reported to me that
> > Ryan was as happy, and as good, as he has ever seen him.
> > So thank you all - it sounds like it was a tremendous amount of
> > work and I wanted you to know that it was also a tremendous success.
> > With thanks, Buffie

So there you go... proof that history can be fun for kids, if done correctly.

Later!

Things I learned as a substitute teacher

Recently, I got the priviledge to substitute teach for an ECE class. (Early Childhood Education) Basically this is a pre-school class within the regular school system, but all the kids in this class have some form of learning disability or special needs. Some of them were light cases, where others were extreme cases. While spendind the day with them I learned a few things.

One, it is okay if you don't get things done precisely, or for that matter, correctly. With these kids, some progress or some attempt is better than nothing.

Two, the teachers and teacher's aides are not paid enough. They are fantastic people. I only have to deal with the kids on a irregular basis while they deal with them almost everyday. I truly doubt I could do that.

Three, these kids don't know they have difficulties. To them, it is just the way things are. We are the ones that perceive them as abnormal or disabled.

And lastly, and most importantly, I learned that everyone who has a "normal" child and complains about them, should spend a week helping out in a class like this. After that much time, they will come away from it knowing that things could be a lot worse for them and that they should be thankful for what kind of kid they have. In this class there are students for whom the simple act of writing their name will be Herculean effort, or an act that they will never accomplish. There is also a child who was the victim of a violent act that they will never recover from. Many people might think that this child would have been better off not surviving the incident, but after spending time with this child, I think I know their purpose in life. It is to show people like me that we should appreciate our normal kids more and quit the bitching about them, because, but for the Grace of God, we could easily be in the same situation.

So, the next time you find yourself complaining about your "normal", go spend some time with a special needs kids. You will find it rewarding, certainly entertaining, and you will gain a better understanding of what normal is!

later!

Politically Incorrect....

This year will be the 15th time my wife and I have hosted a Halloween Party with a theme. Our themes have run the gamut of ideas, from traditional to more intellectual. This year's theme is come as you favorite politically incorrect person, place or thing. I thought long and hard about my costume, only to have two of the ideas shot down due to reasons of being maybe a little too much over the top. (Okay, I will admit, one of them, in today's current environment, might have been a bit too much.)

So eventually I settled on a different idea and came up with a list of politically incorrect ideas and statements, which, while being non-PC, are very much true statements from me. I am thinking of having them printed on a T-shirt for my costume. Here is the list so far...

SOMETIMES……

· War is the only answer.
· Kids need a spanking.
· God needs to be acknowledged.
· Some people just need to be killed.
· It is possible to admire a group’s accomplishments while despising their ideology.
· A flag is sometimes more than just a piece of cloth.
· Having a bad childhood is not an excuse for being crappy adult.
· The color of your skin is not a qualification for a job.
· Halloween is a cool holiday and should be celebrated (same goes for Christmas).
· I DO NOT have to agree with you just because you think I should.
· Dead White Men of history deserve credit instead of criticism for what they did.
· Playing dodge ball builds character.
· Hunting animals for food and clothing is good for everyone involved.
· Guns in schools can be educational instruments.
· Alternative lifestyles are just un-natural.

I imagine that there are many out there who will get pissed at these statements, but if they stopped and thought about them for a bit, I bet they would agree with alot of them. And if you happen to think of any more, please feel free to comment and add your own!

Later!

Leave it to a German....

to invent the national drink of Mexico...

From the June 2006 edition of German World:

Did you know that Mexico owes its national drink, Tequila, to the German botanist Franz Weber? Although there have been tequila like drinks in Mexico for 400 years, it was only in 1896 that from 136 kinds of agave plants that Weber discovered the one best suited for making Tequila. Before Weber, conducted his studies, in the state of Jalisco near the village of Tequila, nobady had heard the word "Tequila." Today, in honor of Weber, the blue agave plant is still call Agave Tequilana Weber. Source: "Auch ja!?", Humboldt-Verlag.


Hmm... tequila is a big part of my family as both of my children are direct results of tequila intoxication... So I guess I am indebted to Herr Weber! Vielen Dank, Herr Weber!

Funny clothes, birthdays, and HALO

Wow! It is only the end of the first week of October and I have had a busy few days!

Let's see now... On Monday, I substituted for the 7th grade Social Studies teacher that my son has. He was really stoked to think that I would be his teacher for two classes! I was quite happy to be doing Social Studies as that is one of my strong points and there would be no math involved! Truth is, the day was pretty much already planned out for me so it would be a breeze. But what really made it special was the excitement that many of the students had when they knew I would be a substitute! I have known most of these kids for about 10 years now and they know me by my first name or as "Julian's Dad." It was a real ego boost to see how happy they were to see me behind the desk and to hear comments like "Alright! Julian's dad!" or "Yeah! He's cool!" It also was great to hear them say good things about Julian too. And if I can somehow help his level of "Coolness" in school, all the better too! It was really great and I look forward to it again! I think it proves that you can be involved in your kid's life and school activities and not be considered the enemy. You just have to identify with them and let them be kids and show that you can be a kid too! But at the same time, they really crave attention and direction from adults.. and if you treat them with respect, they will respect you back! It was a great day!

Then later that same week... I did two demo as local schools talking about the Middle Ages. Once again, despite what many whiney liberal types might think, having weapons in schools and using them for educational purposes will always get and hold their attention more than a dusty book. As a matter of fact, I now have a rule that if a school wants me to come talk about the Middle Ages or the Revolutionary War, but does not want me to bring in the historically accurate weapons of the time, then they really don't want to talk about the history and I won't do it. Sorry, but that is just the way it is. All the knee jerk laws restricting weapons in schools sometimes gets in the way of education!

And then there was my birthday! Nothing like my 40th birthday celebration... This one was much smaller, but I think I worked just as hard! Let's see, my family and I made home meade apple cider with the help of other family members and friends, we made homemade ice cream and we had a wiener roast with more food than truly was necessary! It was alot of fun, but maybe more work than needed. Birthdays are very important to me.. everyone needs to have there one special day... whether you are famous or not! And you should take the day off from work, just like a national holiday! Why not?!?! God gave this one day to call your own and that seems like good enough reason for me! Now, truth be said, we celebrated my birhtday one day early because the next day, my actually birthday, would be dedicated almost solely to playing the greatest video game yet created.... HALO: Combat evolved.

On the 8th, my good friend Dave and I, set up and ran a Halo tournament to help raise funds for the local Share And Care Senior Center. It was a blast! 10 teams of 4 people each! Four systems linked together! It was a blast! We raised over $800 for the center and had many people ask if we were going to do it again! We had kids from 8 years old to over 40! And everyone got along great and despite some mis-steps we had a great tournament! We had lots of good help and great support from some members of the community! Many people say that violent video games are no good, and in some cases they might be, but it is my feeling that anything in too large amount can be bad. However, instead of trying to get rid of them, maybe more people should do stuff like this and use it for good! It was a blast, and normally more work than I like for my birthday, but now that I think about it, it wasn't really work, but more like play, and that is what you should do on your birthday... have fun.. play games... enjoy the day.

Later!

The making of a geek....

Well, intentional or not, my wife has announced to my son, that his father, me, has turned him into a geek. How, you might ask, can a mother be so mean and unfeeling to her son's feelings at such a tender age? Well, because she isn't telling him anything he doesn't already know...

Last night while sitting on the couch watching Disney Channel's Ned's Declassified School Notes with him... yes, it is a good show, I mentioned that after a recent D&D game I hosted, his character had advanced a level and I was telling him some of the details. He was excited and began to ask some questions when his mom came in and asked what we were talking about. He explained and she the proceeded to tell him that he had been turned into a geek by another geek... his father. But what makes this so funny, at least to me, is that despite the good natured ribbing that she gives he and I, she too is pretty geeky herself...

You see, she proved it by showing us the new Yierd Al Yankovic video, WHITE AND NERDY, which if you can follow along, pretty much details alot of what we as a family or as individuals do or have as hobbies. My wife included. She can quote Monty Python, spends times at Renaissance faires, designs websites and a number of other things mentioned in this video. The video is quite funny and you should check it out. But beware, you might find yourself identifying with it!!!

And do you know what? I like that my son has a bunch of my "geeky" interests... It give us more in common and brings us closer. (And it gives me someone to game with.) Even my daughter wrote on a school assignment, why I am someone she treasures... because I teach her... swordfighting... I can't wait to hear her teacher's reation to that one...

A friend of mine recently made some cool cards that are "Official Card Carrying Geek Cards" so that some of those deserving enough can be Official Card Carrying Geeks! I think that maybe I need to get some and hand them out to my family....

Well, I am off to do more geek work on my family... oh, and let it be known that my wife has agreed to accompany me to spend time together next year at, of all places... GenCon! Who is geeky now?!?!? (Another reason why I love her..)

later!

Gaming and Movie News...

First off, my wife sent me this about the new upcoming Halo Movie that I have posted on before, but mainly about the new video game that is related to HALO the XBOX game. I will have the news article at the bottom of this post. But what I really want to point out, that despite there being a really cool duo at the helm of a new HALO video game and movie, this means that any work on a HOBBIT prequel to the Lord of the Rings movies by Jackson will be pushed even further back! Come on Peter! Get the Hobbit movie rolling! Tolkein fans are dying to have it made! Okay... Now on to the news article, which despite my concern, is really really cool for gamers!


Peter Jackson and Fran Walsh to make new Halo game, original IP
2006/09/27
Microsoft has confirmed that the Academy Award-winning duo Peter Jackson and Fran Walsh (Lord of the Rings, King Kong) are set to create two "new interactive series" for Xbox 360 and XBLA. The first is a "collaborative effort with Bungie Studios to co-create the next great chapter in the Halo universe."

"It's not Halo 3," said Scott Henson, Director of the Game Development Group at Microsoft. "It's a brand new game based in the Halo IP. In a phone conversation with Joystiq, Henson disclosed that writing credits will be given to Jackson and Walsh. As for how the full-fledged game will fit within the continuity of the Halo universe among three installmen ts, a real-time strategy game, and a film, Henson was tight-lipped. "It's going to remain a mystery," he said.

The second title will be an entirely new intellectual property -- "completely from scratch," Henson clarified -- created with the intention of "bringing new audiences into the captivating world of interactive entertainment." The game will be made in conjunction with Wingnut Interactive, a new studio created via a collaboration with Jackson/Walsh and Microsoft Games Studio.

"Fran is a really big gamer and really excited about telling stories through games," said Henson. "We haven't talked about any details and we will when we're ready." If the focus is mass appeal, then Jackson/Walsh -- who managed to make Hobbits cool -- are the best people to have at the helm.

More proof that Star Trek lives!!!

The original Star Trek series will be given a new breath of life with the help of CGI's and digital remastering.

Read more about it in this Yahoo News link...

http://news.yahoo.com/s/eo/20060901/en_tv_eo/19912


For Trekkies out there, this will be a big gift for them! And it will be nice to see the old crew back up on the Television screen again!


Live Long and Prosper!