Monday, August 13, 2007
Update on things...
Both of the kids had birthdays. My daughter turned 9 and my son turned into an official teenager. I think we had good days for them. Each of them had friends over and we got them some nice, but not out of world gifts. It is nice that they are not be more discerning about their gifts and that one or two, rather than more is enough for them. We also planned a large party for them with some other family that has a birthday in August. We rented out the local sportsman's club and had a family day of fishing, shooting, cookout and just hanging out. Later that evening, the invited friends showed up for a DJ that came to play tunes for them. All in all, it was a great evening. Things learned from this party though... Glow stick liquid can irritate some peoples skin, and glow sticks float on the lake and they certainly can't stay in the lake, so loading a canoe on a van at 10pm is not much fun and physically holding it to the top of a van is quite a workout...
Other things...
on a down side, a family in town, very good friends of ours, are facing the decision of having to move in the near future to follow a job. This pretty much sucks for them because of all the reasons it would. Packing, selling, leaving school, etc. But it sucks for us too, as they are probably some of our best friends in town. It would really be a downer to have them leave. We, and they, are holding out hope that something will keep them in the area. But right now, I don't have much hope. It would also mean that I will have to look for a new gamer buddy, as he is my main gaming friend.
Speaking of games, I am heading out, with the family, to Gen Con over the upcoming weekend. It was a great time last year, which was my initial year. I convinced the family to go and I hope that we all have a great time. I have some apprehension that there may be some logistical problems, but I hope we all have a good time. (If you don't know what Gen Con is, think of it as the Mecca of gaming conventions with 30,000 other people who share the same love of gaming as you might.)
And school starts up in one week, and think that maybe, just maybe, my kids are looking forward to it. I think that three months of travel, heat, and just hanging out at home has killed their enthusiasm for summer vacation. We will see. I personally am looking forward to having them back in a routine.
So, that is it for now!
Talk at you later!
Friday, July 27, 2007
Star Trek Movie News!
Four Vulcan ears are always better than two.
J.J. Abrams, creator of Lost and Alias and the auteur who will be reviving the Star Trek franchise next year, said Thursday that his take on the sci-fi classic will feature dual Mr. Spocks, the younger of the two to be played by Heroes villain Zachary Quinto, as reported earlier this week by E! Online's TV blog.
And serving as young Spock's older and wiser incarnation will be none other than Leonard Nimoy, who was on hand when the good news was announced during Paramount Pictures' panel at Comic-Con, aka fanboy heaven, in San Diego.
"People have been asking me why I'm doing this movie, and I think the answer is obvious—we have a great director, a wonderful script, and a wonderful young actor playing Spock, so…it was logical," said the 76-year-old Nimoy, to everybody's proudly dorky delight.
Per the closely guarded script penned by Alex Kurtzman and Roberto Orci, Quinto will star as Spock in his pre-Wrath of Khan days. Nimoy, meanwhile, will have a meaty cameo.
When asked how much of his take on the half-Vulcan Enterprise veteran will be inspired by Nimoy, Quinto, was last seen opening skulls and getting skewered as the power-hungry Sylar on Heroes, said: "Well, as much as he'd like it to be, since he's working on the film, which is an honor."
But, "I certainly intend to bring my own spin to it, and working with these guys, I'm sure I'll find it," he added.
Abrams' addition to the canon, which is slated for a Christmas Day 2008 release, couldn't be coming at a better time, at least for Trekkers, considering there hasn't been a new addition to the cinematic series in more than five years, and because, for the first time in what seems like forever, there is no first-run Star Trek spinoff series on the air right now.
While the last cinematic permutation of the series was 2002's Star Trek: Nemesis, Nimoy hasn't played big-screen Spock since 1991's Star Trek VI: The Undiscovered Country.
Shooting on the new film—which, taking a cue from Casino Royale and Batman Begins, will bring us back to where it all began for Spock and pal James T. Kirk—is expected to kick off in November.
Abrams, who promised that he'd return to Comic-Con next year with more scoop, said that the role of young Kirk has not yet been cast and that they're trying to find a way to get William Shatner involved.
Check the full story at http://www.eonline.com/news/article/index.jsp?uuid=3a6f8f14-fb89-4eeebc462598412ea62a&entry=index&sid=rss_topstories&utm_source=eonline&utm_medium=rssfeeds&utm_campaign=rss_topstories
LIVE LONG AND PROSPER!
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
A list for parents...
Short list for raising good kids:
- If you have little bitty kids, sit on the floor a lot. Communicate at their level.
- Teach them about money. How to earn it, save it, invest it, spend it, and give it away.
- Listen to them.
- Ask more, tell less.
- Hug more, nag less.
- Show your kids affection even after they think they are too big for it.
- Teach them the really important things: Kindness, charity, love, forgiveness, compassion, respect, honest, responsibility, and how to have fun.
- Never lie to them. Never tolerate any lie from them.
- Encourage your children to develop their own uniqueness. Do not try to mold their personalities. Let them be who they are and let them become what they want to become, not what you want them to be.
- Do not make a jackass out of yourself at their sporting events.
- Do not protect them too much. Let them make their own mistakes and suffer the consequences. The lesson is in the consequences.
- They need love more than stuff.
That's it. Pretty sensible stuff and something I think every parent should take to heart. Especially the 3rd, 4th, 5th and last one. No one is a perfect parent, even if we think we are. If we try to be, then we are not being good parents. Spoiling your kids, letting them get off easy, or giving them too much freedom is not being a good parent. If your kids get pissed at you because of a decision that you have made, then most likely, you have made the right decision, and hopefully in time, they will understand.
Okay... off my soapbox.
Pick up the book I mentioned and got this from. Not a bad read. Certainly is easy to read. You just might find something useful!
later!
Tuesday, July 10, 2007
Name five books...
For those who are wondering, these are the last five books I have read:
1. Killing Time ( a Star Trek Novel)
2. 3 issues of Miltary History or Military Heritage magazine (that's something like over 100 pages)
3. Conan of Cimmeria by Robert E. Howard
4. Conan by Robert E. Howard
5. Knights of the Air (biographies of WWI pilots)
...and I am currently reading Medieval Swordsmanship: Illustrated methods and techniques. by John Clements
All of these have been read in at least the last three months or so.
Go ahead and ask someone, or even ask yourself! You might be really surprised at what answers you get! And if you can't remember the last time you have read a book, shame on you! Go out and get a book and read it! Sheesh....
Later!
Monday, July 09, 2007
Along came a spider.... my near miss experience with a Brown Recluse
Later!
Thursday, July 05, 2007
Lookie at what I have!

One more trophy!

Monday, July 02, 2007
While kids are away....



Update from the UK and Ireland!
He will be there until the 9th of July and returns on the 10th. So far he has taken over 1GB of photos on the digital camera. I think that is something like more than 300 images! Wow!
I am so glad he is having a great time, but I can't wait to see him and hear all about it!
later!
Monday, June 18, 2007
One of the toughest things I am going to do....
This coming Thursday, the 21st of June, I am going to have to do one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. I will be letting my 12 year old son travel to another part of the world, where for the most part, I will be unable to help him, watch over him, guide him, comfort him, yell at him or do anything more than talk to him on the phone. He is leaving for England, Wales and Ireland to spend three weeks abroad with the People To People Student Ambassador program. He was nominated and selected from a group of Central Illinois Students to go on this cultural exchange program and for the last 6 months we have been working to raise funds to send him. Well, now the time has come. I think it has snuck up on everyone in our family. I think that for a very long time, my son thought that it would really not happen, but indeed it really is. I know that he has many apprehensions about leaving and traveling so far away from his family. I have the same ones. However, this program has been doing this sort of thing for almost 30+years and is very well organized and well planned.
Aside from being very proud of him for going, I am jealous. I have never been anywhere other than Canada and that cannot really be said of going to a foreign country, especially when I have only traveled to Toronto. He is going to get to see and do so much. The itinerary they have laid out for him is amazing! I highly doubt he will even think about calling home he will be so busy and moving around.
Thursday is coming up fast. I am quite nervous but I do not want to let him see that. I am sure there will be tears upon leaving but he will not see concern in my face. I hope to add entries to the blog as he progresses in his travel. But for now, all I want to do is get through Thursday and see him off safely and comfortably. Other than making sure he is well prepared, that is about all I will be able to do for him. Wish me luck!
Later!
Tuesday, June 05, 2007
Earliest Memories?
I remember an afternoon spent in a mud puddle at the entrance of my parents driveway. My younger brother and I spent a good hour or so playing in a deep muddy pool of warm water. There is a photo of this, and I am not remembering just the photo, because I distinctly remembering riding through the puddle with my trike and pouring water over my brother's legs and arms. And I remember my mother laughing at me before taking the picture.
I remember a 2 year old birthday with a clown cake. I remember it being decorated on the counter just to the left of where the fridge in my parents house now sits. I also remember tasting the icing and taking a picture outside by the front lamp post.
I remember my first day of walking to the school bus. I had to walk with my older brother, who was 13 years older than me. I also remember standing in the road outside my parents house with my sack of things for school waiting for my mother to take a picture. I don't know if that photo still exists or not. I vividly remember my fear and walking behind him to the corner to be picked up. It was a sunny, hot day. I don't remember the bus arriving but I distinctly recall the bus driver saying to my brother, "It looks like you have a shadow today." I also remember the nervousness I felt when he walked to the back of the bus and I stayed in the front. I thought I was supposed to stay with him but instead he moved as far to the back of the bus as was allowed. I don't remember anything after that.
I definately remember the old neighbor we had next door. Lee Fry. I remember stealing his cane and letting us sit with him on his front porch in the afternoon. He also used to give us cold drinks in the summer. I remember his yard was often overgrown and it had junk lying around in it. He was quite old and I think we have photos of me and my younger brother posing with him. I also remember visiting him in the nursing home in Hoopeston I think. Maybe it was Watseka. He died when I was maybe 5 years old but I don't recall a funeral that I attended. I currently own his mitre box saw and his single shot 12 guage shotgun. He was a cool guy.
Speaking of old guys, I remember the barber how used to cut my hair. Snuffy Barth. Snuffy was his nickname and for the life of me I cannot remember his real first name right now. I remember the old barber chair that was too big for me to sit in so I had to sit on my dad's lap. The shop always had neat things to look at and examine but we (my younger brother and I) were always told to sit still and not mess with anything. I seem to recall his shop being in a garage or at least it looked that way to me. Snuffy was a short balding man that had a interesting pattern of speech. Almost like he was puffing out air as he talked. He was incredibly friendly and made getting haircuts tolerable for a youngster.
This is what I can come up with for the moment. I am sure that as I think harder, more memories will come to the fore. If any of you have that you want to share, feel free to comment! Thanks!
Later!
Thursday, May 31, 2007
Family time part two...
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Family Time in St. Louis
Thursday, May 10, 2007
Going to the Principal's office.... *yawn*
While subbing, I encountered a couple, no three kids, all boys who were somewhat considered troublemakers or unruly, or just lacking respect or discipline. One boy just seemed to thrive on disrupting class and the attention it got him, and so, he was removed from class, oldly enough at the request of many of the other students. Off he went to the prinicpal's office. I saw him later, no worse for wear...
The second boy, while struggling in school, seems to be able to cope with the class work, seems to be a victim to his own inablity to ignore outside stimuli and reacts, or more accurately, overreacts to it. I was present when he and others were called out for taking a test in private room without teacher supervision. One thing led to another and he started to yell, hit the wall and otherwise over react to the situation. Off he went to the prinicpal's office, with me escorting him. While walking I tried to tell him that it was not the fact that he was not to take the test without a teacher present, but his actions that followed that got him a visit to the office. I think it made sense to him and he seemed to understand, a bit. (Later he was about to over react and he stopped and looked at me and said, "Oh, right!" "I remember!" and he stopped and just sat back down!) After his visit, he was back at class, able to finish the test and looking like it was just another day at school.
The third boy, had a direct confrontation with me and I decided that if I did not act immediately, I would loose respect and give this boy more confidence to act out again in the future. This kid seemed to think that he was better than just about anyone else and held other in contempt. It is a good thing that our local school kids are nice, because this kid is pretty small and nerdy and stands a good chance of getting a pounding if things in the make up of the school kids was different. Anyway, I took him to the office and went in to the meeting with the Dean of Students while he was made to explain while he was there. He basically stalled, hem-hawed and ignored the Dean and as I was leaving, the principal was filling out a disciplinary report. I looked a the boy and he seemed to not care at all. And why should he? All he was getting was a report form and maybe a after school detention. (Don't know for sure, though)
None of these kids seemed to be in the least bit intimidated about going to the office. Maybe it was because they have been there so many times, they don't care, or maybe it is not a big deal at home and so they don't worry. I do know that in my time and that was not that long ago, a trip to the office was a thing of dread! I even remember getting spanked! In grade school! (so much for that now) Punishments were real then, it seemed. Long after school detentions, extra homework, extra physical work, and even expulsion. Doesn't seem to be the case now. Maybe that is a good thing. Maybe my school district doesn't really have really bad students like I hear about in other places, but I think they have made the "OFFICE" a very un-intimitating place. I remember at my school it being a place to fear. Not so now it seems. That is too bad. I don't have a solution, but I would think that making it a more scary place might make it a less often visited place too!
Your thoughts?
Later!
Thursday, May 03, 2007
Non Sequitur
This is a great comic strip and this day's comic in particular is right on target. It is something that my wife and I have often wondered, every time we hear about a suicide murderer blowing themselves and other up in the name of their religion or god. So why are the Jihadist leaders, leading by example? Huh?
In a nutshell, the comic shows a jihadist leader on a pulpit in front of a crowd of followers. One of the crowd has his hand up and asks, "Um... If being a martyr is so great, why don't you ever volunteer?" And on the bottom, of the strip, a text box that states, "Why jihadist rallies never have Q and A sessions."
Wiley, the creator, hit the nail on the head. Maybe if a few more jihadist leaders lead by example, there would be less holy war in the world.....
later!
Wednesday, May 02, 2007
Global Warming on Mars??? How's that happen?
later!
http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2007/02/070228-mars-warming.html
Mars Melt Hints at Solar, Not Human, Cause for Warming, Scientist Says
Kate Raviliousfor National Geographic News
February 28, 2007
Simultaneous warming on Earth and Mars suggests that our planet's recent climate changes have a natural—and not a human-induced—cause, according to one scientist's controversial theory.
Earth is currently experiencing rapid warming, which the vast majority of climate scientists says is due to humans pumping huge amounts of greenhouse gases into the atmosphere. (Get an overview: "Global Warming Fast Facts".)
Mars, too, appears to be enjoying more mild and balmy temperatures.
In 2005 data from NASA's Mars Global Surveyor and Odyssey missions revealed that the carbon dioxide "ice caps" near Mars's south pole had been diminishing for three summers in a row.
Habibullo Abdussamatov, head of space research at St. Petersburg's Pulkovo Astronomical Observatory in Russia, says the Mars data is evidence that the current global warming on Earth is being caused by changes in the sun.
"The long-term increase in solar irradiance is heating both Earth and Mars," he said.
Solar Cycles
Abdussamatov believes that changes in the sun's heat output can account for almost all the climate changes we see on both planets.
Mars and Earth, for instance, have experienced periodic ice ages throughout their histories.
"Man-made greenhouse warming has made a small contribution to the warming seen on Earth in recent years, but it cannot compete with the increase in solar irradiance," Abdussamatov said.
By studying fluctuations in the warmth of the sun, Abdussamatov believes he can see a pattern that fits with the ups and downs in climate we see on Earth and Mars.
Abdussamatov's work, however, has not been well received by other climate scientists.
"His views are completely at odds with the mainstream scientific opinion," said Colin Wilson, a planetary physicist at England's Oxford University.
Thursday, April 26, 2007
The end of a good thing.
I am glad I stepped away when I did. I am only sorry that so many friendships were damaged over this matter. If you find yourself in a situation similar to this, simply walk away while you can. Cut your losses and hopefully you will retain some of your friendships and dignity.
Later!
Thursday, April 19, 2007
I am still here!
Later!
Wednesday, March 28, 2007
Stop Yer Whining!
Anyway, he came up with the idea to wear a purple arm band on your right wrist and to try and go 21 days without complaining about anything. (At least out loud as far as I can tell.) If you do find yourself complaining you are supposed to switch the armband to the other wrist and start over on a new 21 days. (21 days is supposed to be the number of days needed to break or start a new habit)
You can find out more about this program at http://acomplaintfreeworld.org/ I know that way too many of my friends complain about way to much. I too complain about too much when in reality, I really have very little to complain about. Things are pretty good for me and my family. So my wife ordered some of these for us and friends. Check back later to see what happens! And stop whining about it!
later
Monday, March 05, 2007
A Dead Serious Weekend
FRIDAY... that seems like a good place. Let's see. On Friday after work, we needed to get alot of shopping done for a number of reasons. My wife was hosting a baby shower for a good friend of ours, and we as a family would be hosting a couple of young ladies in our home as they and their performing troupe brought their play to our little town. After getting everything purchased we headed home and tried to get the house ready for our guests and get everything organized for rest of the weekend. Finding a bit of down time, we watched a movie and relaxed before heading over to our church around 10pm to recieve the "Mish Kids" from the Cincinnati, Ohio region. These teenaged kids and the adults that travel with them, are actors, stage crew, and support staff of a show called "Dead Serious... About Life." This is a show that lays bare the problems that many teenaged and some pre-teen kids face everyday of their lives. It show the effects of teen sex, drinking, drug use, abuse, and ridicule. Up to this point I had not heard of the show before, but the church was sponsoring the play and we had signed up to host some of the troupe members. The "Mish-Kids" pulled in just a little after 10:15pm or so and we got to meet the two wonderful young ladies that would be staying with us. Heather and Suzanne were to stay with us and would depend on us for lodging, food, and travel while in town. It was late and they looked tired and hungry so we headed home, got them a bite to eat and get them settled in.
Dead Serious... about Dancing!
SATURDAY... Saturday morning came and as usual, Gunnar the wonder dog was the first one up and as is the norm, that makes me the second one up. He headed downstairs to go lick the faces of our sleepy headed guests, but I stopped him. After all, they had travelled a long way and had a very long day ahead of them, so I let them sleep. After a while, though, I had to get them moving because they had an entire stage to set up, a play to rehearse, and show to perform, all by 6pm that day. I have not had teenage girls in my house for any length of time, so I got a quick lesson in the amount of time needed for the girls to get ready. I can fully imagine that I will be experiencing this first hand soon, as Cora grows up and enters her teen years. Despite all my fears that I might not have awoken them in time, they were up, dressed, fed and ready to go! I dropped them off at the school and left them to go to my next appointment... getting things gathered up to feed all of the performers and crew at the school and helping my wife get her stuff gathered for the baby shower. I helped her get ready and then I met up with our pastor, got the food together and made it back to the school in time to set up and be met with 45 hungry teenagers. One and a half hours later, I was heading back home from the school, and took in a bit of a breather with my son in the form of XBOX.
Then, the big plan of the day... a date with my daughter! (See "Dancing with the Girls" from the March 2006 posting... check the archive) It was the annual Daddy-Daughter dance sponsored by the Girl Scouts. We had a dinner reservation at 5pm at the local eatery, and then off to the dance at 6pm. Man! What a great turn out! The dance floor was packed with dozens and dozens of frilly dressed little girls and almost as many well dressed dads, grandpas, step dads, and brothers or other male dates for the dance. And it did not take long before everyone of those little girls was out dancing with their dates... whether the dads wanted to or not! My daughter and I danced for two solid straight hours and had a blast! It was totally fun and almost too short of a time together! But we were there until 8:30pm and I had to head out again to get Suzanne and Heather at 9pm. I would have to get them home, feed them, let them relax, and hopefully get them a good nights sleep for the next day's performance. It was nice having them back in the house again. We did not get much time to visit and get to know each other better, so we took some time to do so before calling it a night. Apparently the play went well and the turnout was good. I would not be seeing it until the next day, but I had already heard great things about it from them and others, so I was really looking forward to it.
Dead Serious...about Life
SUNDAY.. the day of the play. I hated doing it, but I had to wake the girls up early so that we could attend the 8am chuch service all together. I was glad the Suzanne and Heather decided to forgo the teen Sunday School gathering to instead hang out with us at the house. The initial feeling of uncomfortableness that all strangers have was pretty much gone, and by the time lunch was ready, my kids, and my "mish kids" were hanging out playing HALO having a good time, and the girls felt comfortable enough to dance around in the kitchen to the music on the XM satellite. It is funny to think that they were doing the same thing that we do as a family when we are feeling happy and a bit silly. It was a good feeling. I felt like we had succeeded in making them feel at home. But our time was coming to an close soon. The girls had to pack their stuff and get back to the school for the last performance. The show was at 2pm and I would be with the Church confirmation class to see the show. We were told to sit apart from the kids so that they could take it in without the watchful eye of their parents. Actually, I preferred this, as I could then concentrate on the play myself.
In a nutshell, WOW. What a great play. It is not like it was the best play I have ever seen, it was just that it was the best play about the pressures and troubles facing teens I have ever seen. It was pretty emotionally raw in some places and it did not neccessarily end on a happy note. It was not overly preachy but sent a great message, and it even gave members of the audience a chance to go back and talk with people who were just willing to listen. The message was a faith based message, but the biggest message the play tried to get across to the teens in the audience, or anyone for that matter, was to just talk to someone and don't try to face your problems on your own. My son thought it was an awesome play and I saw quite a large number of thoughtful, or even tearful faces in the audience and a fair number of audience members did take part of the listening room. It was a very uplifting experience. I highly recommend it for any community. You can find out more about it at http://www.mish-inc.com/ You will not be sorry.
Then, we finally had to say good by to our "girls," Suzanne and Heather. They were here for such a short time, but they were so fantastic that I will miss them. If the play comes back to this area, I am definately going to request that we be allowed to host them again if the circumstances allow. It was a great time.
That night, it was a very deep night of sleep. I was Dead Serious... about sleeping.
later!
Wednesday, February 28, 2007
News from the Neutral Zone...
Check out the link below for more info!
http://www.eonline.com/news/article/index.jsp?uuid=b3ea9976-ddad-47f6-b0e8-f8f599de18e3
Later!
Tuesday, February 27, 2007
If you want...
Given to me in a Valentine's card. Think about it. It makes great sense.
This beastly body...
Yet, it may be that this beastly body of mine has a purpose. Perhaps abstract desire must take concrete form ere any step can be made toward accomplishment and knowledge."
Robert E. Howard, letter to Tevis Clyde Smith, Jr.
Aug. 28, 1925
(Robert E. Howard, Selected Letters, 1923-1930. Necronomicon Press, 1989)
Why did I post this? Any number of reasons but mainly two... First off I thought it would be an interesting and thought provoking statement, especially when some discover that it was written by the creator of the pulp fiction Conan the Barbarian character. Most who have never read the stories by Robert E. Howard, think of him only as a superficial fantasy writer that deals only in blood and gore. Again, that is because they have never read the Howard stories.
Secondly, I love the analogy of the soul, being compared to a team of horses. The horses of desire. It clicks with my feelings that a soul, while an incorporeal and intangible thing, is still a part of the human body and life, just as much as the heart, lungs or any other internal organ is. Without a soul, I don't think that we would be anything more than just another animal. A soul to me is God's fingerprint on us all, being made in his likeness. And it always seems to me, looking for a way out of the body to soar to a higher peak. And this is why I think humans always strive to attain and accomplish more than what they have. The soul is looking for a better place, a better life, a place where the soul can soar.
Enjoy...
Later!
Monday, February 26, 2007
It's almost time...
"Our ideas are products of creative minds that realize a motorcycle isn't simply a means of transportation, but ratehr a representation of a person's very identity. We firmly believe that a motorcycle adventure isn't just a destination, but also the quality and enjoyment of the excursion and the pride of making your motorcycle a tourist attraction at every stop along the way."
This should be called the "Way Cool Philosophy of the Two Wheeled Brotherhood."
Here's to hoping for warmer weather... it is almost time!
later!
Thursday, February 15, 2007
Gunnar - King of the Hill
My wife just discovered that I can post photos directly to my blog from "flickr.com." So, you will probably see alot more photos on the postings! Cool for you and easy for me!
As you can see, Gunnar is at the top of a 4.5 foot snow drift. This was before the snow plow made it another 1 or more taller. I have not seen snow like this around here for maybe 12 years or more. This is kind of reminisent of the snow fall I remember as a kid.
Later!
Later
The Valentine's day Birthday Boy
Valentine's day is OK again...
My wife and I have only casually observed Valentine's Day for the last umpteen years or so and it has been good for us, but we never really acknowledged the day as "Valentine's Day." It was just another day. But I think that all of that has changed for us now. We have another reason to celebrate the big "V" day.
Our wonderfully loveable, well behaved, handsome, protective, and incredibly smart dog, GUNNAR was born on Valentine's day of 2006. This year, we got to celebrate his birthday in addition to doing all the regular Valentine type of stuff. We did not go all out for the Valentine stuff... cards for each other and the kids, some treats and a nice meal out was the order of the day. I liked it. Nothing big, nothing outlandish. (I did get some "Sharries Berries" in the mail from my wife... gourmet choclate covered strawberries... oh. my. God. Yum.) And, along with the Valentine day stuff, we got to lavish attention and love on our pooch. We even made a dog food based birthday cake for him. (We have entered into that realm of crazy dog owners, I know...) He loved the cake! We even shared it with some of his doggie buddies. It didn't hurt that we had a huge snow storm that socked us in for two days and the kids were out of school, we were off work, and he could have us to himself for as much as he wanted. He loves playing in the snow! It was a good day for him and for us.
So... Valentine's day is back on the calendar for me. I will never again make it a huge day, because after all, it is just a Hallmark Holiday, but now it is more for my family and I.
Happy Birthday to Gunnar Valentin Von Geiken (yes, there is no "e" on the end of his middle name, the "i" is pronounced as an "ee")
Later!
Tuesday, January 30, 2007
Sleeping in the Cold!

Greetings from frozen Illinois! This last weekend, I had the particular joy of spending time with my Boy Scout Troop at the Annual Klondike Derby. Unlike the last two years, it was actually cold this year, but with not much more snow than the last two Klondikes. (More frozen mud and grass than snow.) For many of you out there, spending two nights in below freezing temperatures may not sound like a lot of fun to you, but this is one of the highlights of my year. Camping with the scouts is always fun, but joining them in the Klondike, trying to take home the prize and then working with them to stay warm, entertained and fed is also enjoyable. This year was no different. We did have a few scouts that were not as well prepared for the weather as they should have been and it did affect our performance, and most certainly theirs. We tried our best to get them comfortable, but in the end, I think it will be a learning experience for those boys. One of the things I like best about hanging out with the Scouts is interacting with them on a level of not a scout leader but as a friend. I usually try to involve myself in some of their conversations, games and activities. I have even begun to be the game master for the troop. The boys love having some of the new and different games that I bring along to play after all the planned activities have ended. Let's face it, sometimes even Boy Scout Camp can be boring after hours, so I figured that having fun, easy to play games ready to go would help keep them from getting in trouble or at least keep the whining down.
All of the boys, or at least a very large majority of them, are a sheer pleasure to be around. I like to think that while they see me as one of their leaders they also see me as a friend. And even more so, I really am starting to see how my son is starting to take a role as a leader in the group, especially with some of the younger ones. And he is even starting to stand out among the older boys, even if he does not stand up for himself strongly enough. A case in point is during one of the activities at the Klondike, my son had the correct answer and method for accomplishing a goal, but the older boys decided to do it their own way, which in the end, turned out to be wrong. They should have worked together and listened to their other fellow scouts and maybe they would have done better.
Over all, the whole scouting experience is a great thing for me. I never got to be in Scouts as a kid so I am kind of experiencing this whole adventure along with my son. So far, it has been a fun ride.
Until next time!
later!
Monday, January 22, 2007
Book Recommendations...
I don't think I have given any book recommendations in a while, or any for that matter. But recentlyI have read a book that was such fun and heartwarming to read that I must encourage the rest of you to read it. It is "Marley and Me: Life and Love with the World's Worst Dog." byt Jack Grogan. For anyone that is a dog owner, especially a big dog owner, you must read this book. It is the misadventures of a horribly behaved dog that does so much wrong but get it right at just the precise time that he will remind you or your own dog eventually. It is a true story and filled with laugh out loud stories, stories that will tug your heart strings and maybe make you cry, and with good lessons for all of us two legged animals that only a dog can teach us. And for those of you who have an older dog, or maybe have recently lost your dog, it will be amazingly hard to read the last three chapters, so I warn you now, be prepared, not so much as the sadness of the end, but more so for the insight into the passing of a pet. Believe me, it will make so much sense to you that you will wish that you had thought of it yourself.
So go out and get "Marley and Me." You will not be disappointed.
Other Quickie Recommendations:
Quicksilver by Neal Stephenson (Historical Fiction)
The Complete Roman Army by Adrian Goldsworthy (Military History)
Eragon by Christopher Paolini (Fantasy)
Thursday, January 11, 2007
What's new and what was old...
Since the last post, an anniversary, Christmas, New Years, and a 40th Birthday have come and gone.
My wife and I celebrated our 16th anniversary in late December with a quite dinner together and a get together with some friends at a local watering hole. It was a nice time, but I cannot wait until these bars in our area are SMOKE FREE! Yee-gahds I hate smelling like tobacco smoke. I supposed that if cigarette smoke smelled like pipe tobacco, people might not mind as much, but as it is, good riddance to the smokers, or at least to their nasty little habit.
Christmas is always a good time, however, it is not my favorite time of the year, nor my favorite holiday. Too much goes into making Christmas the holiday we expect... lots of lights, bigs trees, lots of food, tons of gifts and all the other things that make it what it is. I often wonder what Christmas' were like 200-300 years ago. I think I might like that level of celebration better. Now, mind you, I for one am not complaining about the great gifts I receive or give, but maybe some of the effort and money spent on getting these gifts and making the big parties and the elborate decorations might be better spent on spending more time together in a quieter setting. But then again, with my family, there is nothing small or quiet and yet, it is still a great time and would not miss it for the world. Maybe this is what makes Christmas such a delima for me. I am wanting more (or less, more specifically) but really enjoy and look forward to the chaos that celebrating Christmas with my family is. This year was especially good, because my sister
and brother came up with family from Texas and we had a great time together. It was good having everyone back in one place.
Next, was the New Years eve party. We have started in the last few years, a travelling, or progressive dinner party with friends from the neighborhood. It has been a really good time with some really great meals. No one, except for the person that hosts the end of the evening party really has to deal with much of a mess for very long and the guests only stay about 1.5 hours at each dinner site. It is a good time for my family. We really enjoy it. But this year, something changed! My son decided to head off on his own for a party with some of his friends. It was kind of weird not having him around. I guess I should start getting used to this. As he grows, he is going to be doing less and less with us and more with his friends. Hopefully he was taught well and there will be nothing for us to worry about as he heads out on his own more often.
Resolutions are something that were missing from this new year party again. No one mentioned that they had any, so I guess they are gonna keep doing what they have been doing in the past. My resolutions, and I make some every year are pretty short. First: To count to 10 more often and handle my kids like I do my dog. Second: To help my wife get back into shape. She is too sexy to be out of shape! That is it, but I still have to keep up with the other resolutions from years past... they don't expire, you know!
Finally, to end the holiday, or to start the New Year, my wonderful wife turned 40 on the 4th! With her help we planned a party at a friends house and invited a large number of people to join us. However, even though it was my wife who was turning 40, it was a large number of our friends who were acting either childish, or very old and could not come out and play with us. It was a bit of a disappointment for my wife, but to those who came to the party, it turned out to be a very fun one. It was great to have the family and friends who came and I thank them for it. It was however, a disappointment to have many people say they were coming to attend but then, with out notice, not make a showing. Too bad for them. Not only that, it seems to be to be rude. It did upset my wife a bit, and that makes me sad, and a bit angry, because my wife deserves the best. She sacrificed her 40th birthday present of planning a cruise, in lieu of sending our son to Europe on an ambassador trip, and I wanted to make it as nice as possible. And the gifts... not that she needed any, but sometimes a nice gift on your birthday from someone who gave it some thought, makes you feel good about yourself and gives you that warm fuzzy feeling. However, aside from a few gifts from myself and family, what upset me (and I am sure her) was the lack of communication or gifts from her family on her big day. They failed miserably. That is all I will say about that. But it was sad comment on the lack of effort on such a big day. I know it bothered her but she did not say anything.
So that is all for now on what has been happening since I last posted. I will endeavor to do better. The writing muse has been sleeping lately, and little has come to mind to post about, but I will try.
Until then however,
Happy New Year!
Later
Friday, December 08, 2006
Vegas Day Six. Geek day, last day...




The last official day in Las Vegas for us and the first half was dedicated to being a Star Trek Geek... We took the monorail over to LV Hilton and the Star Trek Experience. We went on the 2 interactive, 4D type of shows. They were pretty fun and I even think I got a bit motion sick! They had a nice display of props and stuff from the TV series and the movies and a pretty cool gift shop full of stuff for Star Trek fans. We then headed down to Quark's bar which was made up to look like the set from the DS9 tv series. The food was pretty good and decently priced. My wife even got to rub the ears of the resident Ferengi owner. Apparently not every one can do that for free! I even enjoyed a glass of Romulan Ale, direct from the Neutal Zone! It was a good time and a good way to spend part of the last day. After that we went to the convention center where there was a Cowboy Christmas going on that was there for the Rodeo Finals. I have never been to something like this but there were more hats and boots and creased denim than you can shake a stick at. I many ways, it was no different than the gaming conventions I have been to, except that the geeks at this convention call themselves cowboys and cowgirls and the ones I go to, we call ourselves geeks....
Later than night we decided to eat late as we had been eating pretty much all day long, and we had a free $50 certificate to Nine Fine Irishmen, compliments of the Tahiti Village sales seminar... So to pass the time we walked over to the M&M store again for some gifts for the kids and then over to the Coyote Uglybar at New York, New York. Coyote Ugly, if you have never been before is a bar run for and by women. And the women who work there are smart, sassy and sexy. They control everything that goes on at the bar. The only male presence I saw were the two bouncers and they were under the direct control of the ladies at the bar. They gave all the women in the establishment free shots. (my wife did partake of about 6 of them!) and they made the guys pay for the music on the jukebox and required us to do certain things to get shots. I volunteered to get shots but didn't know what to expect. Luckily they only made us do a dance off. Me and three other guys in the middle of the bar dancing for a shot from between the bar mistress's legs... what guys will do for a pretty girl with free drinks... I did my best but got beat out because some cowboy had like a 1000 of his friends there and I lost and took 2nd. he got the shots, I got a kiss from my wife... I think I won in the end after all! It was really cool and very fun. I would definately go back there.
After that we had reservations for 9pm at Nine Fine Irishmen and eat some great(Free) food and listened to a great Irish band with a stepdancer that could have been in RiverDance. It was a great way to end the week in Vegas. It was very late and we were to leave for home tomorrow in the morning so it was the end of the vacation. Time well spent and much money not very well spent. Next time we go we will have to go with a bunch of friends. I think it would be even more fun!
Time to go!
later!
Thursday, December 07, 2006
Vegas... Day five Real estate and proof that real men eat PINK!


Okay.. so this is day five and we are gonna pay for being naive and obvious tourists. The very first day and not more than three hours on the ground and we get suckered into one of the many "Free show and dinner specials" that it seems everyone wants to give you. We got snagged in New York, New York, and we were talked into doing a 2.5 hour seminar/business pitch to look at some time share property in Vegas. For doing it, we would get a free show... Lance Burton, magician, and $50 in meal tickets to a decent restaurant. Ok. So we did it. We were picked up at 8:45am to go tot Tahiti Village to have people talk to us about how cheap and smart for us to buy into a time share. Sure it would be if you liked coming back to Vegas every year and you consider $1200 a year cheap for a vacation. It was funny though that the guy trying to sell us on this deal was from Broadlands, Illinois! Small freaking world. He should have known right off the bat that midwestern, central Illinoisians are not going to give over $4,000 down in a matter of minutes while on vacation... Anyway, we got our tickets and certificate and a thank you and we were dropped back off where we got on. So now what... It was near noon and we would have to try and get and get a ride to the Star Trek experience. Sounded like a lot of work so we decided to go back to the hotel and make use of our room..............................................
Later that day..... We headed out and got some food at Planet Hollywood and then hoofed it over to the Monte Carlo to see the show. Surprisingly, we had some good seats and the show was darned good and fun! Not bad for sitting through a sales pitch! On the way back we caught another Bellagio fountain show... very nice as always... and decided to go get some more fabulous desserts at the little French style dessert stand. That is when I got my Rose Macaroon. The bright pink dessert! Man was it good, and man was it pink! It had a rose petal encrusted in sugar, fresh raspberries and custard inside with cookie type top and bottom. You had to work hard to get the goodies in between the pink parts but once you got there, it is sooo good that you want to go back and get more as soon as possible! (Breakfast??!?!)
Well, then it was late and we headed back to the Caesar and its friendly confines. Oh and I have not mentioned... one of the coolest things about walking the Strip.... there is a constant music soundtrack everywhere you go. Like carrying your XM radio on your favorite channel all day long! It was off for a short while at the hotel and it was like everything was shut down. I missed it! Weird...
Well that is all for now... Tomorrow... Geek Day.
Later
Vegas Day four...Chocolate and gambling




Today was a very lazy day, and at some points, boring. Yeah.. go figure! Bored in Las Vegas... but it can happen, especially if you can't justify over priced shopping or are not going to gamble and you don't have a car!
The conference was in its final day and was expected to last well into the afternoon, so i spend a big part of the day doing some reading and some tv watching. No Star Trek Experience today...
I did go out and do some people watching which can be quite entertaining in itself.
I talked with the kids and even got to talk to the dog, all of which made me a bit homesick, but it was better once my wife was done with the conference. When we got together, we decided to walk over to the Bellagio, the one hotel we had not been in yet. When we got there, we saw a very impressive set of Christmas decorations made up of giant polar bears and reindeer made up of carnations and pecans. They also have a huge tree with dancing water spouts around it. But that was nothing compared to the chocolate fountain at the little shop around the corner at Jean Phillipe's You can see part of it on the last photo. We couldn't resist the temptation to buy come good European chocolate and shared a small chocolate mousse cake. WOW was it good!
Later we went back to the Caesar and had some food and did a bit of gambling. The photo was not supposed to be taken in the casino, but the guy at the wheel of fortune said he would look the other way. We did not do to badly, turning $10 into $34. So, there. We gambled in Las Vegas. Now we are official non-virgins to Vegas.
Tomorrow we are planned to do a tour at a time share to get free tickets and dinner, something most wide eyed tourists get roped into while in Vegas. So. until day Five, see you later.
Wednesday, December 06, 2006
Vegas... Day three... lots to do!



Day three and I think that we had our busiest of the days so far. After my wife's conference was done in the afternoon, we headed out on foot to go see the sites. And we did a bunch! We went and hobnobbed with the stars at Madam Tossouds Wax Museum. It is creepy how life like they are!Then we were off to see some of the other sites at the hotels along the strip. We went in to most of them and compared to the Ceasar's, they seem to be of lesser quality. We have yet to see the inside of the Bellagio so we will can't comment on that yet.
We did take the ride up to the top of the Eiffel Tower at Paris-Las Vegas. It afforded a great veiw of the strip and the surrounding countryside. We even saw the fountains do their dance again from 50 stories up!
We headed south on the strip again and checked out the Luxor which is just HUGE! But like so many of the others, the Casino is the main attraction and it looked just like all the others. On the way back up the strip we stopped at the M&MM World store and shopped around. You can see in the photo all the 22 colors of M&M's bu we only ever get to see about 7 of them in the commercial market. We bought some for the kids. It was neat to see the colors you never see in packages.
We got back to the hotel later that afternoon and made use of the huge jaccuzzi and got ready to head out for dinner. We got to eat at SPAGOS, which is the famous restaurant owned by Wolfgang Puck. Man, it was some good food, but like everything else in Vegas, expensive.
Later we headed over to the Venetian for a gondola ride and a bit of shopping at the Blue Man Group store. My son Julian would love this store...
I purchased tickets for the Star Trek Experience which we will do on Wednesday so expect some photos of geeks tomorrow!
Gotta run! Later!
Tuesday, December 05, 2006
Las Vegas .. Day 2. The expensive and the ridiculous



Hey! Day 2 in Las Vegas and we still have not gambled. Probably because it cost so much for everything else that I can't hardly stand to give out the last few dollars in my pocket... Let's see, $5 for a water, $35 for breakfast, and $12 a day to just use the internet. But in the end, a big portion will be paid back from the conference re-imbursement. Monday was a lazy day. I headed out to the Forum Shops and quickly found that if you do not make at least $100.000 annually, you really can't afford to shop there. There are some high class establishments there that sell some really nice stuff and I would love to relieve them of some of their inventory, but alas, it is far to expensive. We did alot of window shopping which can be just as tiring as the real shopping. A nap was definately in order for the afternoon. We did not really have any plans other than exploring the strip a little more and a nice dinner out, especially since the last place was kind of a disappointment.
We set out but not before my wife tried her hand goosing the 16ft DAVID statue in the middle of the Appian Way in the Hotel.
Our dinner reservation was at a place called Sushi Roku, which looked nice from the description. And we were not dissappointed! It had a great selection and a great view. Nicely priced and great service. I even found a new appetizer that I will have to try to make at home!
After the our meal we headed in the opposite direction that we traveled last time and went to see the pirate show at Treasure Island but found it shut down for renovation. Oh well. More walking and we finally ended up at the Venetian Hotel. Nice looking place but it smelled funny. It is supposed to look like Venice with a canal and Gondola boats and all. Very cool. We are gonna go back for a boat ride I think. We walked around the shopping area, which you can see looks like a town square. It was here that I found the most ridiculous and expensive thing I have ever seen. It was at a watch and timepeice shop. A watch caught my eye and I asked about it. The clerk said they carried it and there were only two of them left and were $56,000.00 each. It did not register to me immediately that he had just said $56,000.00 for a watch! It was about 10 seconds later when I saw the price tag that it sunk in. There is a watch on the market that costs more than it cost me to buy my house! And then looking more closely, my wife pointed out a pocket watch that was $66,000.00!!! You gotta be kidding! Who buys this stuff!?
anyway... we walked some more and made our plans for Tuesday and it should be fun. The Tossaud's wax museum, the Eiffel tower and the M&M store! Funny, no mention of gambling yet.. maybe we should do that.
Later!
Monday, December 04, 2006
Vegas... Day one



Hey Hey! We are in Vegas! Cool city! The flight was great as we got bumped to first class with a great meal, glasses of wine and a very talkative flight attendant. Nice comfy chairs too!
We got in around 1pm Vegas time and went right to Ceasar Palace where we a staying. Lots of cool Roman design! This is neat as I am exploring doing a Roman Persona for history demos and school demos and such. Very, very nice place! And Huge! I was a bit dissappointed that there are no Roman types here and it seems that there is no vomitorium.... dang... I thought for Vegas, something as tacky as that would be here.
Anyway, the room is nice and the bathroom is great! Big shower, jaccuzzi tub and two sinks. Big soft bed and plenty of room.
After recharging from the plane ride, we set out to find New York, New York, where we would eat and then see out first show in Vegas. We ate in an Italian restaurant that had great food but crappy service, so I will speak no more of it. The show we were to see was in the same area so we strolled around and waited for the doors to open. It is Zumanity by Cirque Du Soleil. WOW! It is a show that celebrates sexuality, sensuality and erotic humanity with a bit of drama, acrobatics, dancing, and singing with lots of great music. Performed mostly by primarily naked or topless Cirque peformers, it is a show that can take you out of your comfort zone, especially when the performers come down to your seat and interact with you in ways, that most strangers do not on a regular basis. (think groping and dry humping in some aspects) Overall, it was a fantastic performance! (the photo on the right is one of the performers... Antonio el 7", who made it his job to take us out of our comfort zone.)
After the show were walked back past the Bilagio and watched the fountains. It was cool.
Back to the hotel and to bed. My wife's conference is tomorrow. I will go out and explore and see what there is do see. More tomorrow then! I will try to post photos if possible!
The photos were added after I wrote this so, they are out of order. The first one is of me on a BED at the pool where you could relax, sleep or conceivably, have sex on (draw the curtains) if you so desired while visiting the pool. The second photo is one of my famous "arm shots" at the New York, New York casino. The thirds is explained above.
Later!
Friday, December 01, 2006
Rootin' Tootin' good holiday!
However, Thanksgiving is not forgotten by our family. No.. as a matter of fact, it is something that is looked forward to. Not just because we get together and eat more than we should, but because we break out our shootin' irons and have a great time shooting at clay pigeons, stationary targets, beer cans, dirt clods, etc. etc.... It is a great time. This last weekend for the holiday, we had wonderful weather and made the most of it. We gobbled (no pun intended) our food down and headed out behind my dad's barn and started blasting! This was even better for me, because for the first time, my son was able to join in with his own shotgun, and he showed himself to be a very good shot and very responsible with the gun... maybe more so than some of the adults! And to top it off, my wife joined in and also proved to be pretty good! I think she was the best shooter of the girls that were also shooting with us! It was kick ass! It is a real treat for me to see my family do well at stuff like this, especially since it is such a big part of my and my family tradition! But more importantly it is great to see us all having such a great time. My dad keeps talking about wanting to sell his place and move to the big city of 850 people down the road. I can understand his reasoning, but a move like this will kill a tradition like our Turkey Day shoot out. But, that is neither here not there and as long as we can get together as a family to do this stuff and keep on having a great time together, we will. Christmas is coming up and it is looking to be another big family get together. And I am sure that there will be more good times like there were for Thanksgiving. Who says that guns can't create family togetherness!
Later!
ps..
I am headed to Las Vegas in a day or two... Maybe I will post some stuff from Sin City! We will see! What goes on in Las Vegas is not necessarily supposed to leave Las Vegas!


